• Overview

  Our main guideline to leave the "meta" of pure Vanilla survival as unaltered as possible (for a public server).
  The only 3 plugins that interfere with this are:
  GriefPrevention, a sleep voting plugin, and player item shops for trading. That means as many features from other plugins you know from other servers are absent by design and won't be added. There are two ranks "new" and "player", they do not give any benefits. You can not buy "power" for real money here and we have no adminshops. Everything on the map was build and farmed in survival.
  play.server26.net
  Map: https://map.server26.net/
  Discord: https://server26.net/discord
  
• No Warps, No /tpa, No /sethome
  
• No (Mojang) chat reports
  
• No McMMO or alike, No donation perks or any such frills
  
• The world will never reset
  
• Land claiming
  
• Player trading via signs (No adminshops)
  
• 20% of player need to sleep to skip the night
  
• All made in survival, including spawn area, etc
  
• Lots of public farms.
  Rules: https://server26.net/rules TL;DR: Be reasonable and don't be a dick.
  

• Community

  What you have read so far sounds like your cup of tea? Well then you may fit right in. Laid back rules, a close knit community, having some events from time to time, and there is always something you can help with. Staff and ohter players are usually available to help you. Need help digging? Just died far away? Raid an Ocean Monument? No problem! We also have a Hermitcraft-like shop area for players using a trade shop plugin.
  

• Gameplay

  This is supposed to feel like a vanilla server. The default currency is diamonds. This is not enforced its just what everyone uses. No warps, you have to walk, fly by Elytra, or set up infrastructure such as piston bolts or blue ice highways. You can focus on long term projects, take your time, because we NEVER RESET the map. Megabases welcome. Leave for months, pick right up where you left. In +7 years time we built a lot of farms and infrastructure. This makes it a lot easier to get going early in the game, especially for endgame players. But fear not, there is always need for expanding upon whats already there.
  The spawn city is protected. Areas there are released for community builds. Outside the city you can build your own base(s). You will get more claimblocks during play.
  

• Specs & Plugins

  Hosted in Germany with 128GB Ram, a Intel i9-9900k, and 1TB NVMe SSD; the server runs on Paper. Regarding updates we don't always run the latest version but we plan to update to every major release eventually. In case an update brings a big change in world generation (e.g. 1.18) we delete chunks that have been loaded less than 5 minutes. Meaning someone likely just passed by while exploring.
  For land claiming we use GriefPrevention, which lets you protect areas you selected with a golden shovel. You can allow certain or all players to build and or access chests/buttons, on your claim. It also protects your claims and the worlds surface from creepers. Then there is also a chest shop plugin. You can use iron nuggets to create villager-like trades. You can do this anywhere, but its recommended to do this in the shopping area or your claim. Harbor is a plugin which skips the night, if 20% or more players are in bed. Lastly there is one that lets you rotate Glazed Terracotta.
  Additionally we have some datapacks and tweaks: Ghasts don't break blocks. You can silent mobs by naming them "silent" (undo with "unsilent"). Your 1st kill of the Enderdragon gets you an Elytra. Craftable Enchanted Golden Apples. Hermitcraft posable Armorstands. Some recipes have been tweaked (bone blocks directly from bones, recolor glass,... )
  

Emotional:

• Emotional sensitivity: INFJs tend to be very empathetic and sensitive to emotional clues. You also have a heightened awareness of others' feelings. Sometimes you might even be deeply affected by the emotions of others. This is a beautiful thing, but can also cause issues. Your sensitivity and empathy makes it so that you can very easily understand others and as a consequence can feel involved. This can, in turn, make you highly attuned to potential rejection or abandonment. This fear of rejection or abandonment aligns with FA. Individuals with this attachment style may be extremely sensitive to signs of potential rejection or abandonment and may anticipate these outcomes even in relatively stable healthy relationships. Even when there is zero reason to suspect the other person would leave or reject them.
  
• Emotional volatility: INFJs are very emotional people. If they also have FA then they will very likely experience intense emotional highs and lows in relationships or a rollercoaster of emotions. On top of this your emotions will likely feel very inconsistent which makes decision making very difficult. Say you crave intimacy but fear commitment, you follow your heart but lack strategy so your rational and emotional side are in constant conflict. Lastly, you ricochet between you ricochet between over and under taking responsibility. FA people often believe that the extent to which they feel bad MUST reflect the situation they are in, but this is not true. However, because they do not realise, they can act it out on others by for example name calling, insulting, gaslighting, pathologizing and manipulation. Obviously, these are things you should definitely try to avoid and it makes sense knowing that FA used to be approached the way it was.
  
• Emotional depth: INFJs tend to experience emotions intensely and may have a rich inner world. They are often introspective people who often also take pride in their own self-awareness and understanding of their own emotions. In the context of FA, but I guess also with people in general, this can make someone appear delusional. Sometimes when people believe and want to believe in their own self-awareness so much, they reject the possibility that reality is different as a means to protect themselves. Furthermore, because INFJs feel so deeply and have no trouble analysing emotional contexts it can also make them feel a bit afraid of showing vulnerability. In people with FA this is a lot more extreme. They will probably have a love-hate relationship with intimacy and desire close connections but also become anxious if it gets too close. When they feel threatened or overwhelmed by this closeness or vulnerability they will likely distance themselves.
  
• Tendency to self-sabotage: A thing not necessarily common with INFJs but with FA is that of self-sabotage. In the case where someone who is FA fears intimacy or potential rejection so much, they may engage in self-sabotaging behaviours that create distance or lead to the end of (healthy) relationships. Eventually they will probably see that they are the common denominator but because they do not understand their own psychology they will blame themselves and thus will not feel deserving of a healthy relationship. This is an incredibly sad process. Especially also for someone who is genuinely good for them. Imagining the trajectory of the life of someone with FA, the struggles they will go through simply because they do not see is a terrible idea.
  

Idealistic:

• Disappointment: INFJs tend to love thinking about the future and the ideal way to get to their envisioned future. As a consequence, they are the type of people to invest significant emotional energy into relationships. Obviously, when reality turns out different then you had hoped that will be a disappointment. Where someone with FA differs here is that they know this too, but instead of trying to make things work they hesitate to fully invest in relationships due to the potential negative outcomes. What if this or what if that. When idealistic expectations are not met it can further reinforce the belief that they need to take more care and invest less. That, paradoxically, amplifies their fears and avoidance behaviours.
• Disillusionment: As mentioned before INFJs love idealising and create idealized versions of relationships in their minds. They seek deep connections and intimacy where they can feel their idealism is being exercised. However, when faced with the realities of imperfections and conflicts, they can experience a sense of disillusionment. This, again, reinforces the fear and anxiety of individuals with FA.

Conflict Avoidant:

• If you have spent any time with an INFJ you will know that they do not like conflict and probably will do their absolute best to resolve it when they can. Otherwise it will keep being a stressor. This is different from other personality types who after a certain point just stop caring about what an argument was even about. INFJs really seek harmony which means maintaining peace and avoiding confrontations. Interestingly, majority of INFJs seem to have had a childhood where a lot of conflict was present. I guess that creates further incentive for peace later on in life. Similarly, people with FA also fear conflict. The difference here is that for these people the dear controls a large part of their mind and actions. They fear that if they somehow cause any disturbance or conflict that the other person will reject them or that they will get a negative reaction. For someone with FA this feels super intense and incredibly bad.
  
• Emotional withdrawal: Consequently, they will do everything to avoid confrontations or conflict. Even if that means giving up parts of themselves, holding back, closing up, etcetera. It does not matter if the other person would accept them no matter what and says this too. For them it is a way to protect themselves when they feel overwhelmed or afraid. In essence we all do this but not to the extent of someone who is FA. They might close off entirely (0 emotion) to shield themselves from potential emotional pain or rejection even if there is absolutely no reason for that. The only way for someone with FA to realise this fully is through therapy.
  

Strong Intuition:

• Deep Understanding of Others: Previously it was mentioned that INFJs possess a natural ability to perceive and understand the emotions and motivations of others. They are skilled at identifying hidden meanings and underlying patterns in human behaviour. They have a strong intuition. This is a great thing and can also be quite attractive (maybe I am biased). The difference here between an INFJ that has secure attachment and one that has FA is that the FA is not able to understand a lot of emotions and motivations of a secure person. They understand people who have unhealthy attachment styles, but not secure people. Take the idea of unconditional love for example. They understand what the concept is, I mean anyone can google a definition, but they do not know what it effectively looks like or is supposed to feel like.
  
• The problem: The issue with this is that people with FA think they do understand everyone. They pick up on subtle clues, sense potential threats and dangers, but fail to realise that some things are just false flags. Maybe they are quirks, maybe they misspoke, maybe they misjudged or maybe it just was not their day. However, when someone who is secure tries to argue that it was a false flag, it can very much be an indication for the FA person that they are trying to be manipulative. Essentially, people with FA are not always aware of ‘reality’. Obviously you can see how this is a shitty situation to be in.
  

Self-sacrificing Nature:

• Struggles with Boundaries: Judging by the amount of posts asking how to establish healthy boundaries it is apparent how much of an issue this is for INFJs. They find it challenging to establish and maintain personal boundaries due to their empathetic nature and desire to help others. Find it difficult to say no and do you to get in situations that make you feel uncomfortable? This is why. They willingly put the needs of others over their own. This can obviously lead to exhaustion or feeling overwhelmed.
• What about FA: Similarly, individuals with FA can struggle with setting healthy boundaries, oscillating between a fear of closeness and a desire for connection. Furthermore, they have incredible difficulty expressing their needs and emotions. Some do not express it when asked even if it is their partner. The combination of these two issues makes it so that people with FA tend to neglect their own needs to prevent potential rejection, abandonment or being judged. In some cases the person with FA might even blame someone else for this, for them feeling this way. Obviously, this is incredibly unfair and destructive.

Private/Reserved:

• Inner World: INFJs in general are very reserved. They keep to themselves including their inner thoughts and emotions. It is a very complex and profound inner world, which I am guessing (I am ENTP, I do not know everything) is the reason why they do not want to share it with everyone. It just probably feels a little too special. This makes sense. However, in people with FA there is more to it. These INFJs also have a rich inner world except the reason they do not share is a lot more complicated. They fear vulnerability, showing your inner world, showing you, that is a vulnerable thing to do. As a consequence, they have a tendency to keep emotional distance from others to protect themselves from potential pain or rejection. FAs can make you feel like you know a lot about them, but ultimately when they do not allow you to enter their world every now and then, then how well do you actually know them? Besides, they want other people to be vulnerable before the other person, that way the scales remain equal and the vulnerability scale does not go haywire. Again here, the only way as a FA person to healthily open up is with the help of therapy.
• Overthinking and Analysing: Besides a rich inner world INFJs also have a tendency to overanalyse situations and be in their heads for long periods of time. Specifically in terms of relationships and for a FA this can cause further issues. Relationships require trust and that is notoriously difficult for people with FA. If you combine that with a fear of uncertainty and anxiety it can cause the FA to overthink and overanalyse every single detail. This consumes their life. Asa result they stress themselves out so much that they might want to end things. Then when the feelings calm down again they might change their mind again. A cycle of push and pull and emotional highs and lows. For both sides of the relationship this is obviously terrible.

Perfectionistic:

• Self-Criticism: INFJs are very perfectionistic people. They are very critical of themselves and so hold themselves and others to a very high standard. In itself this is not a bad thing. However, in the context of FA, , this perfectionism can amplify the fear of rejection, as they may feel inadequate or flawed and fear that others will discover these perceived imperfections. Again, here it sometimes does not matter whatever the partner says or does, it might very well be impossible to convince a FA otherwise. Then again, even if you tried they would likely find it too much. They believe they do not deserve all of the support and love at times. So it can be a really difficult time being in a relationship. Lastly, it can also go the other way. The person with FA might actually believe that because they feel so bad, repulsed, disgusted or other by the partner as a consequence of FA as well, the partner must be the reason for those feelings. However, that is often not the reality. What happens is that the FA got triggered somehow by something, often as a trauma response, and they project that onto the other person. Someone who is secure is able to recognise these things, someone with FA more often than not cannot, which is why these issues happen in the first place.