I took out a personal loan in 2016 and unfortunately fell on hard times in 2017. I did a short term payment plan, completed that in January and continued the regular scheduled payments in through April. Last payment made to them was in April of 2017 (and I have email back up). Afterwards they turned it over to collections (LVNV Funding LLC) in the amount of $2000.
I moved in 2019 and I've had no communication with them since then. I figured out earlier this year that some mail was still going there & luckily the current tenant still held onto them. This is where I learned that LVNV was suing me for the amounted owed, $2000. The letter stated that because I had not shown up to court on xyz date, it would be rescheduled for June 16, 2023 and is a default hearing. Again, this is a letter directly from the court (not LVNV).
Sorry for the long story but I'm just now finding out about this & haven't officially been served. Can I argue the SOL even though they filed 1 month before the 4 years (TX)? What is the best way to go about it? Can I fight this myself?
Pulled from Houston TX court records, using case #:
Affidavit Filed - March 30 2021 Original Petition - Efile - March 30 2021 Original Petition Filed - March 30 2021 Citation - March 31 2021 Debt Claim-Citation - March 31 2021 Service Return - April 5 2021 Answer Due - June 1 2021 Additional Documents Filed by Party - August 2 2021 Exhibit Filed - August 2 2021 Military Status Affidavit Filed - August 2 2021 Motion for Default Judgment Filed - August 2 2021 Notice-Certificate of Last Known Mailing Address - August 2 2021 Proposed Order Filed - August 2 2021 Service Return - August 2 2021 Motion Filed - April 18 2022

Hi! We're currently running a Bedrock-compatible survival server, designed for individuals aged 18 and over. Recently, we updated to version 1.20 and we're in search of fresh faces to join our growing community!
Our most active times are usually during the evenings in North American time zones, where you'll typically find around five members online during peak hours.
We also have an active Discord community, where we occasionally gather for various party games. Some favorites include Jackbox, Gartic Phone, Cards Against Humanity, Among Us, and many more.
We take great pride in our server's longevity. Having been active for over six months now, we plan to maintain it for an extended period without resetting the overworld.
To enhance your experience, we've introduced a number of quality-of-life features. This includes the use of /home, /tpa, an in-browser world map, among others. Perhaps the most significant deviation from the traditional vanilla experience would be our integration of mcMMO, coupled with a datapack that introduces over a dozen new biomes to the End.
If you are interested in more details, feel free to message me on Reddit or on Discord (username: ferroh).

I've been a new Telus PureFibre customer since February. I have the Arcadyan NH20A Network Access Hub in by basement, which connects to an 8 port unmanaged D-Link switch feeding my hardwired devices. The Boost 2.0 is also fed directly from the NH20A.
I have Telus Wifi-Plus, and they gave me a AirTies 4980 for a mesh AP. I must admit, I'm disappointed with the range of the AirTies, which is meant to cover my backyard and detached garage. I had a Shaw BlueCurve pod in the same spot, and it went much further into the garage and even out into the alley I could pull 150Mbps. I'm lucky to get 5 down in the garage now, and the upload often fails during a speedtest.
Has anyone else had a similar experience with Telus Wifi Plus? Compared to the Shaw Bluecurve App, Telus connect is also pretty disappointing. It shows "ethernet" as the connection point regardless of wether it's actually hardwired or wifi. My guess is that it's pulling the info from the NH20A which only has Ethernet connectivity. There also no way to manage the LAN on Telus Connect.
Overall the setup works well, don't get me wrong. These are just the major downsides I've noticed going from a Shaw XB7 + pod to Telus PureFibre and Wifi Plus. I've considered bridging the NH20A and getting a TP-Link Deco system, but I don't have that kind of cash lying around.

Provider decided she'd had enuff of my constant, never ending constipation issues. Gave me a mission, warned me that I was going to hate her, and sent me home with the orders to: Enema, two ducolax, entire bottle of powdered miralax and gatorade over a period of 12 hours. Basically colonoscopy prep with no procedure at the end of it. She was right. I absolutely hate her right now, lmao. Glad she gave me four days off work to get through this though.
Had one of the worst days of my entire life yesterday. Not too great today either. Have a blistering migraine (even water is going through me too fast).
Now she wants me on the capful of miralax until she tells me to stop. I can't even imagine drinking miralax while I'm still shitting straight up water and everything that goes in my mouth.
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Have you done this?? Does this work? Or do it just be torture? She says she wants to get these bowels moving again and keep them moving. That I've gone almost a year now with them sluggish. Villi seem too damaged to keep things moving.
Sorry I post so dang much. My bipolar meds are going straight through me too fast and I have withdrawels.

My three and half year old ( four in August) is hitting other children and also teachers at school. He also has been hitting me at home. He has also been defiant with his teachers and with me ( telling no and also just flat out refusing to stop doing things when we tell him to stop). We are using a sticker rewards chart for days when he listens and doesn’t hit. At home we talk to him about the not listening and hitting and also do timeouts for the hitting. This has been an issue since March. We thought he was doing better and then this week it’s bad again. What else can we do?

I travel a lot with my job and at this stage I tend to notice bad behaviour. As part of a journey this week, I was taking a short two-hour flight that involved being bussed to the plane. It was in mainland Europe with various languages being spoken. I got in the bus early as a priority passenger. I stood near the middle doors to get off earlier. There was a person already seated in the nearest seats to the door, with his arm across both seat backs. The spot was clearly marked for people needing assistance/elderly etc. He was a non-vulnerable American man. The bus filled up with non-priority passengers, including people with small children, elderly etc. We take off at speed but our friend doesn’t bat an eyelid. Kids, parents, elderly, struggling to stay standing on a fast bus. No worries, he’s very happy stretched across his two seats. We arrive at the plane steps and he leaps from his seat trying to push past me. My auto-petty kicked in and my arm rose automatically to grab the pole in front blocking his exit (I honestly think I was on autopilot). His nibs mutters “really?” I mutter softly “I’m holding the bar to keep my balance, what’s the problem?” He shuts up Fuck they understood me… I hammed up a genuinely bad foot (broken bone) to limp off the bus and up the steps, delaying him as much as possible and letting others pass me by.
Bonus, I got my luggage off the carrousel before him too; as an American he has to bring multiple suitcases everywhere. Sailed out of the terminal thinking “see ya asshole”!

I just played two identical games, one which I won and one which I lost. This is all based on H2H which is what I play the most.
The outcome was the same and the score played out the same way. First game, I won it 4-2. I started 2-0 up, he put one past me to make it 2-1, I scored again, 3-1, he makes it 3-2 near the end of the match and it seems he has a chance to equalise if he manages to recover the ball quickly. I kick off again and manage to score the 4-2.
Next game, same exact outcome except it happened against me. Ended up losing 4-2 after making it 3-2 near the end and thinking I had a chance to equalise, in which he ended up scoring a last minute goal to make it 4-2.
Which makes me think that the different results possibles are probably based on percentages like the pack openings, where it tells you how likely it is to pack a 110 or a 103+. Starting a game is basically like opening a pack for a win, a defeat or a draw and there's no way to know which one you'll get.
Also if you're close to getting promoted, the chances for getting a win go down, cause I've been on the verge of getting promoted and lost every single time I was one win away from getting promoted.
Another thing is getting relegated. Couple times now where I've been newly promoted and after managing to escape relegation a bit, I got the worst run of defeats ever until I got relegated. I've experienced the same pattern like three times now, with each promotion.
I don't know, that's how I see it. Maybe it's complete bullshit. 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

I feel productive and frustrated and open to anything rn. What's something I can start rn, from home? Somethhing that's fun that I can get fixated on that will leave me a better pwrson than I was before?

Title sums it up. I'm a Gaming Technician at a tribal casino. Basically all workers on the casino floor that interact with the customers (attendants, technicians and cocktail servers) are tipped employees. The drink servers keep their individual tips, naturally, but the Attendants and Techs have a tip pool that is split between us. Before, the split was: $5k off the top automatically goes to the attendants and the remainder was split 75/25, 25 percent being for us. This was offset by techs having a higher base rate plus more hours of overtime, generally.
Just off the gaming floor is the bank, or cage as we call it. It's a legit on site bank, and their entire job stays within the confines of their rooms, with literal bars on the windows and a sort of "airlock" they have to enter it with, I.E. like a cage. Relaxing in chairs watching people go by, shooting the shit with each other, lot of downtime when there's not guests needing to cash out. They're basically cashiers at a supermarket, that count stacks of money.
Well basically the cage has been bitching and moaning about their pay (starting $11/hr) and I feel that. They want a job that pays fairly like the rest of us. They've been complaining for years apparently and here's what happened.
Us and the attendants get called into a meeting with some people in finance and the GM. The meeting is to discuss revises to the tip policy. Here's the shorthand:
The attendants are being revised to a flat 70%, no off the top skimming anymore. Alright, sucks for them.
The technicians are being lowered to 15%. The remaining 15% is being given to the cage workers. The cashiers and bankers.
This took effect at the beginning of the year and weve lost about 300-500 per paycheck depending on how tips were doing. The cashiers are making as much in tips are I am and I'm the one at the games when they have problems and the player wants to be argumentative about the outcome when it comes back online. Or handsy.
Me and my team are beyond pissed and have been all year, at everyone and everything. Our pay was just straight reduced for no reason. The only reason I stay is because it's still higher paying than most places near me in any field I'm qualified for, but I'm still keeping a listen for an opportunity. Trying to build a network and find something better for myself. In the meantime, shits fucked and I hate the entire tribal council and every white collar fucknut that works in that goddamn building.
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So I (18 M) live with my brother, his girlfriend, our friend, and my Mom. My father(42 M) stops by often sometimes spends nights here, but my mom and him are my together good friends though. Unfortunately my father is an alcoholic and over the past month or so my brother have noticed that our alcohol has been going missing and my brothers food missing. On top of that, I've noticed small amounts of money out of my safe that only my father, myself and, my Mom know the code to, has gone missing. Everyone except my mom suspects it's my dad. Today I get home and 200 dollars is missing from the safe. I'm gonna talk to him about but I don't want to ruin the relationship I have with him, I will ask him if he did it and he'll deny I just know he will. But I know he is stealing from me nobody else in the house would do this. I don't know how to approach this.

A friend of mine just showed me a video yesterday in which my old post had been read. Honestly I'd nearly forgotten about it since I was only there to ask if I was TA or not. And since I don't wanna go through the pain of trying to do an update on AITA, I thought I'd just do it here since entitled spells out Gary pretty well. Other than the shaving incident, he tried to get us to partially pay for his food multiple times by combining the check and dividing it equally when he always got the most expensive thing on the menu, and once even pulled the "I forgot my wallet" bit. He was described as a neckbeard by multiple people, including women he flirted with. He tried to get a married neighbor woman that was older than him to have an affair with her. And then later egged her apartment door when she refused. That one I only learned about a couple months after my original post. And no, Gary never saw consequences for doing that. I also learned he stole several videogames and DVDs from friends, mooched food and drink out of their fridges, and even went through a period as a squatter for two months by refusing to leave a house he'd been let into by a former tennant, and the landlord actually paid him to leave. Gary's also an extreme hypocrite that contradicted himself more than a corrupt politician. For example, one minute he'd be anti-vax, the next he'd be complaining about other people who weren't getting the C19 vaccine. Pretty sure he never got it too. I can't believe I ever had any sympathy for this man.
To recap, someone a former friend of mine named Gary is related to got cancer. And Gary went around trying to get our friend group to all shave their heads. He only got a couple of them to agree, and even brought his shaving kit to my apartment because he just assumed I'd join in as well, and was already unboxing it before I even got the chance to say anything. I told him the shaving was not happening. Well he decided to make an example of me, and waited till I was good and passed out from drinking at a friend's party. I was so dead to the world that I had to be shaken awake by a friend after Gary got caught shaving my head. He took off one of my eyebrows and messed up my hair beyond saving. And he was laughing his butt off over having done it. So yes, the rest had to come off. I ended up pressing charges on Gary for assault, and found out he's been on meds for a mental disorder for years. And he'd stopped taking the meds, which is one of the reasons he was so loopy. But his tune changed pretty quick when police arrested him since what he'd done qualifies as assault.
Gary's family harassed me and tried to make me drop the charges. I not only didn't drop the charges, but I reported the harassment to the police. Only problem is it didn't bloody stop! In fact, it got worse! Mainly from Gary's mother, whom I can see where Gary got his charming personality from. She showed up to my apartment a couple of weeks after the shaving incident to scream at me that I knew nothing about what they were going through. And a little hair wasn't a big deal. I told her my hair was a big deal to me. And what Gary did was inexcusable. Well that earned me a slap on the face, followed by a swift kick to the nuts, followed by a few more kicks to my body after I went down. It was all recorded by a camera that I had watching the front door. (Landlord wouldn't let me put in a Ring Doorbell cam) One of my neighbors saw her, and screamed at her they'd be calling police. Gary's mom ran, and I ended up going to the hospital with minor injuries. Mostly just bruises, a black eye, and a sore groin.
Gary's mother got arrested, and I filed a lawsuit against her for attacking me. I saw her in court twice for both her assault on me, and the lawsuit I filed for her assault. This woman had taken several self defense classes over the years, so she knew how to fight. That had the judge consider her a trained individual, and she was sentenced to six months in jail, given two years probation, and ordered to pay my medical bills. She actually cried to the judge about the money. But he wasn't having it. It took some time to see her in court again for my lawsuit against her as she was out of jail by then. I was awarded ten thousand for the harassment, emotional damages, and lost work hours, and she had to pay all court and lawyer fees. Which she cried about again because she didn't want to pay anything to the man who'd ruined her and her son's lives. But she had the money for both court cases, because she had no problem paying. But around that time, I heard Gary's relative with cancer passed away. I don't know any details, just that they passed on. I admit that was sad. But I never knew this person. But Gary made their condition his hill to die on when he tried to make an example out of me. Gary got some probation and community service for what he did to my hair. And he cut contact with our entire friend group and eventually moved away. Where to, I don't know. I don't care either.
As for my hair. Well it grew back just fine. Took nearly half a year to get it back how it was. My boss had me put out of sight for a while, and I was wearing a hat everywhere for at least a month. I did take that 10k I got in the lawsuit and combined it with my savings for a down payment on a house. So I've since moved into a much better abode. I also have a girlfriend now that's living with me. It was a bit soon for her to move in, but there were extenuating circumstances. We're making it work though, and I'm happy.

She was my bestest friend in the whole wide world, long before we even developed feelings for each other. We would talk every single day, for hours on end, and the conversation would never stop. In fact we would have to mutually agree to end the conversation, because there was no end to it. I would look at her and think "It's like I have known you forever". I knew through pure logic and not just emotion that she is very close to being my second half. The more we met, the more we wanted to, and needed to meet. She was someone with whom I could be as silly, goofy, deep, weird, vulnerable, emotional etc as possible. Our conversations were literally split between us making silly noises, talking about serious topics and getting to know each other deeply. So deeply that we could answer any deep and random question about each other's life. She understood every word that came out of my mouth and instead of placing judgement, she would simply understand and reciprocate equally. We literally brought out the best in each other because we both provided each other a platform to express those parts of us. Our goofiness was unmatched, we would make funny noises together, we would make funny parodies on songs together, or even random improv based on anything around us or in the conversation. We would talk about the deepest topics of life; pros and cons of joint families, marriage, religion, spirituality, philosophy, why people do certain things, etc. She brought out every aspect of my personality out of me. And I did the same for her. She matched me on almost every single thing. We had the same exact same humour, family values, moral values, relationship/marriage values, mindsets, goals, etc. We would write letters to each other in both English and Punjabi, letters expressing what we like about each other, and full of words with the intent to make each other filled with happiness. We would never allow each other to have self deprecating thoughts. A relationship built on pure quality time and words of affirmation, and there was no physical aspect to it. I saw in her the female version of myself. Her personality was so endlessly deep and we knew each other so well that we would see each other in everything, everywhere. Everything and every place would make us think about each other. Maybe a random situation, an object, the environment around us - this was because we knew each other so well that we could see a part of each other in those things. For example, if I'm near a forest, I'd get reminded of her and how she loves hiking, if I see a circus, I'd get reminded of how goofy and funny she is, if I see a happy old couple, I'd get reminded of her maturity in relationships. She would do the same for me. She'd see something in her day, and if it reminded her of me, she would instantly message me. That is how close we were - we saw each other in all aspects of our lives. A few of the things I really appreciated about her. She made me feel so nostalgic. She reminded me of and mirrored every single stage of life I've been in. She and I had very similar experiences during the same life stages. Talking to her was literally like talking to myself while I was in those life stages. It was the most rare and surreal experience I've ever had in my life. A person who I never knew before, suddenly shows up in my life and I recognize in her, myself. Even simpler stuff like watching the same shows as me growing up, same YouTubers, similar interests, similar behaviours and habits, similar interactions with family members / friends / teachers, etc. We're even born in the same year. Her openness with me was more than she's been with anyone before. She would tell me stuff she has never told another soul, she would laugh at my jokes like she's never laughed before. She told me I brought out her truest and realest laugh that she had kept hidden for years. Other than that, just as a short list of what I appreciated in her: the way she spoke with such love about her family, the amount of time she spent with her family, the way she would talk about her relationship with God, the fact that nothing could sway her from her morals and values ever, the way she would allow me to resurface my TRUE self, the way she gave me a platform for any thought I had, the way she was so nerdy and had all of these unique interests, the way she would speak about her desire to get married and have the happiest life with her future husband and in-laws, her modesty, her ability to make jokes on the spot and carry any joke that came her way, the way her joy and bubbly nature was simply contagious, they way she was nice to everybody out of the pureness of her heart, the way she appreciated her culture, language and religion, her perception of friendships, the fact that her personality was so wide and deep - I could start any conversation on any topic with her and the conversation would have no end to it. There are so many other things that I cannot think of right now. I am very glad that we got to spend the time we did together, and although it did not last forever, it has taught me that yes, there are people like her out there. Every person is rare and unique on this earth, but for me, she was the absolute most rarest person ever in this whole wide world. That is because I have never ever experienced such a strong emotional connection with any person in my life. My heart, mind and soul give the Universe a challenge: "Universe, can you help me find another girl like her?" And the Universe would probably respond "Sorry that seems a bit impossible, but I'll try". I have moved on from her, and wish her all the best in her future relationship, and hope she is the happiest person ever. As for me, I hope my next relationship is with my final and life long love. I never was in love with her, I was only close to it

Hungarian szőlő \ szőllő ‘grape(vine)’, szőlőszem ‘grape’ are from Chuvash śyrla < Turkic *yidge- ‘(blue)berry’. This optional treatment of *-rl- fits csobolyó \ csobolya \ csorboló \ csoborló ‘shallow keg / small round wooden vessel for watewine’ < *c’ump(l)V(lV) ‘drinking vessel’ https://www.reddit.com/usestlatos/comments/12282lq/uralic_languages_and_pie/ . Since Hn. szëmérëm resembles Ossetic sënëfsyr ‘grapes’, a loan is likely. Hn. szëmérëm from Iranian *ǝvsarǝma- shows that v and m can alternate https://www.reddit.com/hungarian/comments/12r8r2b/hungarian_sz%C3%ABm%C3%A9r%C3%ABm_from_iranian_%C7%9Dvsar%C7%9Dma/ , but since szőlőszem seems to be a compound of szem ‘eye / round object’ < *silmä this loan would be from Hungarian.
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It also would have taken place before the change of -lm- > -m- (since -m- > -v- but -lm- > -m-, this would indicate variation of some sort (maybe dialects) in prehistoric Hungarian), so something like *sërlë-sïlva > *sërlë-sïnva (dissimilation of l-l) > *sënëv-sïrla > sënëfsyr. It’s unclear when in this chain the loan would have occurred. The presence of *-rl- in Iranian is consistent with my theory that *kurla-āwya- ‘egg-home’ > Skt. kulā́ya- ‘nest’, Iran. *kulāwa- > Kurdish kulāw https://www.reddit.com/Pashtun/comments/128y1hh/pashto_k_entries_by_georg_morgenstierne/ .
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This direction of borrowing also raises questions about whether szëdër was a loan from Ossetic https://www.reddit.com/hungarian/comments/1291y6h/hungarian_sz%C3%ABd%C3%ABr_blackberry/ . Since szëdër has many likely Uralic cognates while Ossetic does not closely resemble possible Iranian cognates, a native source seems likely. Of course, the similarities of both sets could still be due to common origin, especially if I’m right in seeing Uralic as a branch of Indo-European.
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She was my bestest friend in the whole wide world, long before we even developed feelings for each other. We would talk every single day, for hours on end, and the conversation would never stop. In fact we would have to mutually agree to end the conversation, because there was no end to it. I would look at her and think "It's like I have known you forever". I knew through pure logic and not just emotion that she is very close to being my second half. The more we met, the more we wanted to, and needed to meet. She was someone with whom I could be as silly, goofy, deep, weird, vulnerable, emotional etc as possible. Our conversations were literally split between us making silly noises, talking about serious topics and getting to know each other deeply. So deeply that we could answer any deep and random question about each other's life. She understood every word that came out of my mouth and instead of placing judgement, she would simply understand and reciprocate equally. We literally brought out the best in each other because we both provided each other a platform to express those parts of us. Our goofiness was unmatched, we would make funny noises together, we would make funny parodies on songs together, or even random improv based on anything around us or in the conversation. We would talk about the deepest topics of life; pros and cons of joint families, marriage, religion, spirituality, philosophy, why people do certain things, etc. She brought out every aspect of my personality out of me. And I did the same for her. She matched me on almost every single thing. We had the same exact same humour, family values, moral values, relationship/marriage values, mindsets, goals, etc. We would write letters to each other in both English and Punjabi, letters expressing what we like about each other, and full of words with the intent to make each other filled with happiness. We would never allow each other to have self deprecating thoughts. A relationship built on pure quality time and words of affirmation, and there was no physical aspect to it. I saw in her the female version of myself. Her personality was so endlessly deep and we knew each other so well that we would see each other in everything, everywhere. Everything and every place would make us think about each other. Maybe a random situation, an object, the environment around us - this was because we knew each other so well that we could see a part of each other in those things. For example, if I'm near a forest, I'd get reminded of her and how she loves hiking, if I see a circus, I'd get reminded of how goofy and funny she is, if I see a happy old couple, I'd get reminded of her maturity in relationships. She would do the same for me. She'd see something in her day, and if it reminded her of me, she would instantly message me. That is how close we were - we saw each other in all aspects of our lives. A few of the things I really appreciated about her. She made me feel so nostalgic. She reminded me of and mirrored every single stage of life I've been in. She and I had very similar experiences during the same life stages. Talking to her was literally like talking to myself while I was in those life stages. It was the most rare and surreal experience I've ever had in my life. A person who I never knew before, suddenly shows up in my life and I recognize in her, myself. Even simpler stuff like watching the same shows as me growing up, same YouTubers, similar interests, similar behaviours and habits, similar interactions with family members / friends / teachers, etc. We're even born in the same year. Her openness with me was more than she's been with anyone before. She would tell me stuff she has never told another soul, she would laugh at my jokes like she's never laughed before. She told me I brought out her truest and realest laugh that she had kept hidden for years. Other than that, just as a short list of what I appreciated in her: the way she spoke with such love about her family, the amount of time she spent with her family, the way she would talk about her relationship with God, the fact that nothing could sway her from her morals and values ever, the way she would allow me to resurface my TRUE self, the way she gave me a platform for any thought I had, the way she was so nerdy and had all of these unique interests, the way she would speak about her desire to get married and have the happiest life with her future husband and in-laws, her modesty, her ability to make jokes on the spot and carry any joke that came her way, the way her joy and bubbly nature was simply contagious, they way she was nice to everybody out of the pureness of her heart, the way she appreciated her culture, language and religion, her perception of friendships, the fact that her personality was so wide and deep - I could start any conversation on any topic with her and the conversation would have no end to it. There are so many other things that I cannot think of right now. I am very glad that we got to spend the time we did together, and although it did not last forever, it has taught me that yes, there are people like her out there. Every person is rare and unique on this earth, but for me, she was the absolute most rarest person ever in this whole wide world. That is because I have never ever experienced such a strong emotional connection with any person in my life. My heart, mind and soul give the Universe a challenge: "Universe, can you help me find another girl like her?" And the Universe would probably respond "Sorry that seems a bit impossible, but I'll try". I have moved on from her, and wish her all the best in her future relationship, and hope she is the happiest person ever. As for me, I hope my next relationship is with my final and life long love. I never was in love with her, I was only close to it

Hello,
Kindly suggest if the following hardware will suffice my requirements.

Architecture Diagram

https://i.ibb.co/4NyS2gj/20230609-131228421-i-OS.png

Requirements

• Home Assistant Integration with Tracking
• Wireless Roaming - Wifi Calling is very critical for us, where moving across APs should be seamless
• VLANs at Native Wirespeed in Ethernet - Current FTP transfers happen at 80 - 90 MBPS and would prefer to keep it that way even after VLANs

Hardware

• Mikrotik Router - hap ax3
• EAP225 or EAP245 (150 - 200 Mbps is fine with me)
• OC200 Omada Cloud Controller
• TL-SG2210P Switch - Managed with VLAN/PoE support

I (20F) am moving out in a week across the country. I have spent the last 20 years here, went to a college near home. And I love my parents to death, greatest and most supportive parents I could ask for. I recently graduated from college and got a job in a big tech company with a great pay and benefits. And on one hand I'm really excited about the new experiences, but on the other I'm shit scared of what's gonna happen. I feel very overwhelmed with the feeling that I'm never gonna come back home permanently, I might never share the same home with my siblings. And I'm not gonna be around on their big days (birthdays/graduation). My parents are proud and very supportive but I can see that they're also sad about me leaving. On somedays I feel that I'm very weak to be having these feelings and maybe Im expected to be strong. This overwhelming feeling is making me feel guilty about leaving.

22F diagnosed with Primary Schlerosing Cholangitis, Pan Ulcerative Colitis, Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, Fibromyalgia, Asthma, Autism, Anxiety, Depression. I take Azathioprine 100mg, Ursodeoxycholic Acid 750mg, Omeprazole 20mg, Citalopram 40mg, Fexofenadine 180mg, Prucalopride 1mg, Colecalciferol 1000units Clenil Modulite (Brown Inhaler) 2 puffs morning and night Infliximab Infusion every 8 weeks at 5mg/kg Ventolin Inhaler-PRN Codeine 15mg-PRN I don’t drink or smoke, and I’m vegetarian and have been since I was 10. My liver isn’t great, but has been pretty stable, I get around 1 cholangitis attack a year. My bowel is fairly stable too, I have 2-3 small flare ups a year where I end up on plain boiled rice etc to manage. I’ve been struggling with joint pain and subluxation, which has been attributed to weak muscles. My muscles arent ‘holding’ the joints in place is my understanding. I did 6 months of physio with targeted exercises and he noted how slow my improvements were. I slipped on continuing the exercises and lost all progress almost instantly, I can’t get off the floor independently if I sit, I can’t get out of the bath etc. I work 3 6 hour shifts a week and it used to be manageable but its getting to the point I’m struggling to drive the 5 minutes home because the nausea from the pain is so distracting. I haven’t had anyone be able to explain this muscle weakness, even with my health being fairly poor, surely my muscles shouldnt be just disintegrating in front of me? What could be causing this? What could I try to help this weakness, it’s throughout my whole body, from my jaw to my hips to my fingers! I also slipped a disc in my back when I was 14, the L5. I think it’s irrelevant but I don’t know! I was 17 when I received my PSC/UC diagnosis and it took a lot to be heard. I ended up a pile of bones. I’m around 5’8 and weigh 68kg now, but at 17 I know my weight got to as low at 40kg/88lbs.
Sorry its a longer one, and theres a few things going on. I’m just at a loss with whats causing it. My doctors seem to throw pain pills at me but don’t really seem interested in what’s causing it. Thank you for any ideas, suggestions and anyone that just got this far!

She was my bestest friend in the whole wide world, long before we even developed feelings for each other. We would talk every single day, for hours on end, and the conversation would never stop. In fact we would have to mutually agree to end the conversation, because there was no end to it. I would look at her and think "It's like I have known you forever". I knew through pure logic and not just emotion that she is very close to being my second half. The more we met, the more we wanted to, and needed to meet. She was someone with whom I could be as silly, goofy, deep, weird, vulnerable, emotional etc as possible. Our conversations were literally split between us making silly noises, talking about serious topics and getting to know each other deeply. So deeply that we could answer any deep and random question about each other's life. She understood every word that came out of my mouth and instead of placing judgement, she would simply understand and reciprocate equally. We literally brought out the best in each other because we both provided each other a platform to express those parts of us. Our goofiness was unmatched, we would make funny noises together, we would make funny parodies on songs together, or even random improv based on anything around us or in the conversation. We would talk about the deepest topics of life; pros and cons of joint families, marriage, religion, spirituality, philosophy, why people do certain things, etc. She brought out every aspect of my personality out of me. And I did the same for her. She matched me on almost every single thing. We had the same exact same humour, family values, moral values, relationship/marriage values, mindsets, goals, etc. We would write letters to each other in both English and Punjabi, letters expressing what we like about each other, and full of words with the intent to make each other filled with happiness. We would never allow each other to have self deprecating thoughts. A relationship built on pure quality time and words of affirmation, and there was no physical aspect to it. I saw in her the female version of myself. Her personality was so endlessly deep and we knew each other so well that we would see each other in everything, everywhere. Everything and every place would make us think about each other. Maybe a random situation, an object, the environment around us - this was because we knew each other so well that we could see a part of each other in those things. For example, if I'm near a forest, I'd get reminded of her and how she loves hiking, if I see a circus, I'd get reminded of how goofy and funny she is, if I see a happy old couple, I'd get reminded of her maturity in relationships. She would do the same for me. She'd see something in her day, and if it reminded her of me, she would instantly message me. That is how close we were - we saw each other in all aspects of our lives. A few of the things I really appreciated about her. She made me feel so nostalgic. She reminded me of and mirrored every single stage of life I've been in. She and I had very similar experiences during the same life stages. Talking to her was literally like talking to myself while I was in those life stages. It was the most rare and surreal experience I've ever had in my life. A person who I never knew before, suddenly shows up in my life and I recognize in her, myself. Even simpler stuff like watching the same shows as me growing up, same YouTubers, similar interests, similar behaviours and habits, similar interactions with family members / friends / teachers, etc. We're even born in the same year. Her openness with me was more than she's been with anyone before. She would tell me stuff she has never told another soul, she would laugh at my jokes like she's never laughed before. She told me I brought out her truest and realest laugh that she had kept hidden for years. Other than that, just as a short list of what I appreciated in her: the way she spoke with such love about her family, the amount of time she spent with her family, the way she would talk about her relationship with God, the fact that nothing could sway her from her morals and values ever, the way she would allow me to resurface my TRUE self, the way she gave me a platform for any thought I had, the way she was so nerdy and had all of these unique interests, the way she would speak about her desire to get married and have the happiest life with her future husband and in-laws, her modesty, her ability to make jokes on the spot and carry any joke that came her way, the way her joy and bubbly nature was simply contagious, they way she was nice to everybody out of the pureness of her heart, the way she appreciated her culture, language and religion, her perception of friendships, the fact that her personality was so wide and deep - I could start any conversation on any topic with her and the conversation would have no end to it. There are so many other things that I cannot think of right now. I am very glad that we got to spend the time we did together, and although it did not last forever, it has taught me that yes, there are people like her out there. Every person is rare and unique on this earth, but for me, she was the absolute most rarest person ever in this whole wide world. That is because I have never ever experienced such a strong emotional connection with any person in my life. My heart, mind and soul give the Universe a challenge: "Universe, can you help me find another girl like her?" And the Universe would probably respond "Sorry that seems a bit impossible, but I'll try". I have moved on from her, and wish her all the best in her future relationship, and hope she is the happiest person ever. As for me, I hope my next relationship is with my final and life long love. I never was in love with her, I was only close to it

My six year old step son has suddenly started to be rough and purposely hurt his 7 month old baby sister.
The only thing that has changed is that school is now out. We have him 50/50. I don’t work and stay home so we don’t hire any nannies. But when he’s at his mom’s, there’s always a nanny watching him. Mom works a ton and on call often.
I’m assuming since school is out when he goes to his moms, he’s just stuck at home with his nanny all day. Versus when schools in session, he’s just with the nanny from 3-7pm.
When my baby was first born I was nervous on how he would adjust. But surprisingly, he’s been nothing short of amazing. He helps me out with her (handing me her diapers,etc) and he plays with her non stop. In fact, I would say he was lonely and happy to have a sibling.
2 weeks ago, out of nowhere, his behavior has completely changed. Not only to his little sister but to me and his dad as well. He’s not respecting physical boundaries (like a toddler), extremely disrespectful and doesn’t listen.
What’s concerning me is the way he’s treating his baby sister. He’s doing things that he knows aren’t allowed. Such as throwing blankets on the baby, jumping on the couch while I’m feeding her, just being extremely rough with all of us.
The other day he purposely scared her, moved her walker into a dark room and then jumped out yelling. I was in the kitchen rinsing out a bottle when I heard my baby screaming crying. It was not a cry I’ve ever heard before. She was literally shaking, closing her eyes, and crying so loud it sounded like an alarm. I immediately picked her up to comfort her but she continued for 2 minutes.
I told him he wasn’t in trouble but he needed to tell me what happened but he wouldn’t. He didn’t seem to care and went on with his playing. I kept asking him what happened but he instead asked if he could have a snack. I was shocked. He eventually told me what happened after 30 minutes or so when I refused to let him watch tv until he told me.
After that day, I won’t leave them alone for even 10 seconds.
All signs point to jealously but I don’t understand why it’s just started now. And his changed behavior is also towards his father and I.
Idk what to do to make my SS stop rough housing with his baby sister.
Also I want to note that we have him in Summer Camp during our days for a couple hours. I was hoping that would burn off his energy but nothing has changed.
He knows better so I don’t think talking to him about how fragile babies are will do anything. I’m disappointed and sad that he purposely hurts his baby sister and doesn’t seem to care. Shows no emotion or empathy.
I’ll take any advice at this point on how to handle this situation.

She was my bestest friend in the whole wide world, long before we even developed feelings for each other. We would talk every single day, for hours on end, and the conversation would never stop. In fact we would have to mutually agree to end the conversation, because there was no end to it. I would look at her and think "It's like I have known you forever". I knew through pure logic and not just emotion that she is very close to being my second half. The more we met, the more we wanted to, and needed to meet. She was someone with whom I could be as silly, goofy, deep, weird, vulnerable, emotional etc as possible. Our conversations were literally split between us making silly noises, talking about serious topics and getting to know each other deeply. So deeply that we could answer any deep and random question about each other's life. She understood every word that came out of my mouth and instead of placing judgement, she would simply understand and reciprocate equally. We literally brought out the best in each other because we both provided each other a platform to express those parts of us. Our goofiness was unmatched, we would make funny noises together, we would make funny parodies on songs together, or even random improv based on anything around us or in the conversation. We would talk about the deepest topics of life; pros and cons of joint families, marriage, religion, spirituality, philosophy, why people do certain things, etc. She brought out every aspect of my personality out of me. And I did the same for her. She matched me on almost every single thing. We had the same exact same humour, family values, moral values, relationship/marriage values, mindsets, goals, etc. We would write letters to each other in both English and Punjabi, letters expressing what we like about each other, and full of words with the intent to make each other filled with happiness. We would never allow each other to have self deprecating thoughts. A relationship built on pure quality time and words of affirmation, and there was no physical aspect to it. I saw in her the female version of myself. Her personality was so endlessly deep and we knew each other so well that we would see each other in everything, everywhere. Everything and every place would make us think about each other. Maybe a random situation, an object, the environment around us - this was because we knew each other so well that we could see a part of each other in those things. For example, if I'm near a forest, I'd get reminded of her and how she loves hiking, if I see a circus, I'd get reminded of how goofy and funny she is, if I see a happy old couple, I'd get reminded of her maturity in relationships. She would do the same for me. She'd see something in her day, and if it reminded her of me, she would instantly message me. That is how close we were - we saw each other in all aspects of our lives. A few of the things I really appreciated about her. She made me feel so nostalgic. She reminded me of and mirrored every single stage of life I've been in. She and I had very similar experiences during the same life stages. Talking to her was literally like talking to myself while I was in those life stages. It was the most rare and surreal experience I've ever had in my life. A person who I never knew before, suddenly shows up in my life and I recognize in her, myself. Even simpler stuff like watching the same shows as me growing up, same YouTubers, similar interests, similar behaviours and habits, similar interactions with family members / friends / teachers, etc. We're even born in the same year. Her openness with me was more than she's been with anyone before. She would tell me stuff she has never told another soul, she would laugh at my jokes like she's never laughed before. She told me I brought out her truest and realest laugh that she had kept hidden for years. Other than that, just as a short list of what I appreciated in her: the way she spoke with such love about her family, the amount of time she spent with her family, the way she would talk about her relationship with God, the fact that nothing could sway her from her morals and values ever, the way she would allow me to resurface my TRUE self, the way she gave me a platform for any thought I had, the way she was so nerdy and had all of these unique interests, the way she would speak about her desire to get married and have the happiest life with her future husband and in-laws, her modesty, her ability to make jokes on the spot and carry any joke that came her way, the way her joy and bubbly nature was simply contagious, they way she was nice to everybody out of the pureness of her heart, the way she appreciated her culture, language and religion, her perception of friendships, the fact that her personality was so wide and deep - I could start any conversation on any topic with her and the conversation would have no end to it. There are so many other things that I cannot think of right now. I am very glad that we got to spend the time we did together, and although it did not last forever, it has taught me that yes, there are people like her out there. Every person is rare and unique on this earth, but for me, she was the absolute most rarest person ever in this whole wide world. That is because I have never ever experienced such a strong emotional connection with any person in my life. My heart, mind and soul give the Universe a challenge: "Universe, can you help me find another girl like her?" And the Universe would probably respond "Sorry that seems a bit impossible, but I'll try". I have moved on from her, and wish her all the best in her future relationship, and hope she is the happiest person ever. As for me, I hope my next relationship is with my final and life long love. I never was in love with her, I was only close to it