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I am a human behavior therapist, which is basically the human version of a dog trainer. I use behavior principals to teach children qpropriate behavior... I have studied this in school and I have taken training outside of school and I have worked in the field for 6 years....
I also have a dog! I got him as a 9 week old rescue puppy! He is a 2 year German shepherd mix. He is reactive to dogs and strangers who try to approach him. I have gone on a WILD journey with this boi!!! But ultimately my education, training, and experience in behavior has helped me with my dog's training, and has helped me to navigate training methods...
Now... I work with a kid, as his behavior therapist, who has a dog. This dog is a reactive German shepherd mix... He was sent to board and train with the promise of coming home as a service dog for my client.
The day the dog came home with the trainer I was present for therapy with my client. The trainer brought the dog out and had the dog go to his place. The dog what excessively whining as we all stood and stared at the poor pup. The lil boi stepped off of the bed and began to urinate and the trainer WHIPPED the leash, which was attached to a prong collar, SO HARD that the dog yelped, tucked its tail, lowered its head, and continued to pee in that position. Obviously the dog had not had the chance to pee and was being punished for attempting to pee off of the bed. I was FURIOUS and had to look away... I was there for the child... I had no say in the dog...
The guy let the dog finish peeing, which took a solid 2 minutes, then forced the dog to go back on the piss covered bed... the dog didn't want to go and got a VERY harsh correction... Several minutes later the dog stepped off the bed again and the guy VERY harshly WHIPPED the leash again and caused the dog to yelp.
The whole time my autistic client was complaining saying, "why is he doing that? He is hurting him!!!" And internally I was SO upset!!!! I agreed with my client 100% but I didn't feel like I was in an appropriate position to say anything...
So today it was even worse... I was in my client's bedroom and we were practicing some skills while the dog trainer was talking to the mom... apparently the dog was avoiding going to his place... he was wearing a shock collar... I heard the dog scream and cry and yelp for several minutes before he stopped... I had to bite my fucking tongue SO hard!!!!! I was on the verge of tears!!!!
We were supposed to join in the session so the guy could start teaching the dog to find the kid... When we went out there the dog had its tail between its legs, and head down. He refused any food or treats and didn't react to any form of petting or praise....
I have spent several nights this week awake in bed for hours and thinking about this poor dog and this piece of shit trainer...
Everything from my education, training, and experience in Human and Dog behavior modification and behavioral learning says that the "training" that I am witnessing is actually abuse!!!
I am experiencing significant distress from witnessing this. I came home from work today, took my dog upstairs, cuddled him and sobbed...
What the fuck am I supposed to do!?!?! My job is to change the child's behavior... I am fucking awesome at MY job... but more than anything, I want to tell the family that this trainer is NOT a real trainer... he uses 99.999999999999% positive punishment. Every scientific article i have read and studied in school said that positive reinforcement is number one. It is the MOST effective for learning. And yeah, a touch of punishment teaches "what not to do", but ELECTROCUTING A DOG FOR SEVERAL MINUTES AS IT FUCKING SCREAMS, IS NOT AN OKAY THING TO DO!!!!
I am considering risking my job to stand up for this dog... Please help me... give me some perspective on this... what are some words to use or convincing articles to cite? I'm considering going full blown academic and writing a whole paper on behavioral learning and dogs and such... because idk how else to communicate what I know and believe....
Help me to sleep again, and help this poor dog to stop being tortured!!! And... it would be even cooler to make this fucking "dog trainer" dissappear forever....

This is probably one of the worst nightmares I've ever had in my life. (I am sorry for the long text!)
I dreamt that we were going on a trip to another country, I don't remember what it was but I assume it was an imaginary country based on the United States. The night before this I also dreamed about this trip, but I forgot to record it. So it is a dream or nightmare that continues. I was with three of my friends. It was a kind of vacation from the university, and we wanted to meet more people etc. The dream was very long, there were different events that I no longer remember.
At one point, I went into a bad depressive episode, stopping talking to everyone, shutting myself down, etc. Not long after, when I was still not quite right, a friend started talking to me about her ex, which is very normal in our conversations. I don't remember how, but since I still felt bad, I couldn't help her much. After that, she started to hate me. She cursed me in a thousand ways and she told me that I was the worst person she knew, she cut me from all sides. I am not able to explain how much she hated me.
Instantly, they started hating me in my house too. My parents despised me and couldn't even look at my face. Words can't fit how much they despised me and truly how horrible it felt. I cried and cried and my head ached and I suffered too much. Everyone got away from me, everyone hated me to the point of spitting on me. I felt so bad, it's the most horrible feeling I've ever felt in my life. The fights, the screams, the insults, the hatred were too specific in the dream. The dream was slow and long, everything felt so real. My parents hated me and I ended up in some kind of boys' classroom where they abandoned me. Needless to say, they didn't like me there either.
We were on some guy's bus for a school trip and a guy with a baby carriage showed up, I think he had a lamb in it. And by the way, he started running next to the bus until he could get in front of the bus while running so that the bus hit the cart and him. When he passed, a lot of the people on the bus started to fight because they noticed that it was intentional by the man with the cart with the lamb. There I woke up. I feel horrible, it still feels real. My heart hurts and I want to cry from how I feel.

I (F25) went on a date last night with a guy (M39) that I met at my spin class. He asked me out with sweat pouring down both our faces after class lol
We had dinner at a restaurant (he paid) and then we got drinks and dessert at a bar (I paid).
When I got home he texted me to make sure I got in safely and said he was looking forward to seeing me again. He sent a text a few minutes later that said "When you get a chance can you send me an e-transfer for your half of dinner? Thanks 😊 "
I already sent him the $45 for my portion of dinner but I wanted to know if there is a way to avoid this next time we go out.
I would prefer to cover the cost of our next date to avoid an awkward text about money.
Should I just pay for our next date? I don't want to split the bill because he might ask me how much he owes me later on. It's not very romantic tbh 😕
I didn't ask him to e transfer me for the drinks and dessert. Why would I? I'm just happy to spend time with him.
I really like him and I'm looking forward to our next date but without the awkward "you owe me $" text.

I just started a new job and am in the training phase. A couple weeks ago a cute girl and myself started making brief eye contact. As a guy I try not to read into this, like we often do, but it became obvious to me that the eye contact was specifically for me. I would call it mutual interest. I didn't try to make immediate contact with her just to be sure I wasn't overstepping my bounds or reading the situation wrong. I've made the mistake before the of thinking someone was into me, and they weren't, and I try my hardest not to be weird. I'm sensitive to the fact that guys are usually hitting on you unwarranted and unwanted and I really don't want to be "that guy". I'm truly empathetic and never want anyone to feel uncomfortable because of me. She is usually surrounded by other guys in her program so I just kept my distance and hoped for an opportunity that seemed natural for us to speak. I say that because there is really no reason for her to go out of her way to speak to me if she doesn't want to and I think we are both a little shy. One day we cross paths in the parking lot and she actually starts the conversation with me on the walk inside. It was a very pleasant conversation, basic stuff like where we're from and our previous jobs, and I felt like we both enjoyed it. I didn't get the opportunity to talk to her again for a couple days since we have slightly different training plans. But the glances and eye contact are a little more pronounced and prolonged at this point. If we pass by each other we say hey. A couple days later we are waiting to be released from work and we see each other and both make a very obvious attempt to make our way towards each other. We make small talk and walk out together towards the parking lot. Towards the end of the walk my heart is racing and I casually ask her if she would like to get brunch sometime since we work nights. She kindly says that she has a boyfriend. I did my absolute best to pretend I wasn't crushed and wished her a good night as we made it to our cars. We see each other the next day and speak to each other as normal. She doesn't seem to feel weird about it and I don't either. I tell her I appreciate her being honest with me as a way of reiterating my respectful interest in her and rewarding her for being upfront with me. The point is I feel there is attraction between us but I don't exactly understand the situation. I don't feel either of us did anything wrong I just don't know where I stand with her. Why would she make effort to show interest in me at all? Anyway thanks for reading this your thoughts are appreciated.

We've been together for 7 years, and I've always had trouble with gift giving. I try to show my love and get him something unique, but he turns it into a fuss. Note that I was 18 when we started dating, he was 25, and I was earning but not that much.
Some examples of the gifts I've gotten him are scuba diving experiences, I tried baking him a cake once and it turned out tasting like shit and he didn't appreciate the gesture and made a whole drama out of it.. the only gifts he didn't make drama out of were just clothes gifts which I find extremely lame.
Last year, I was abroad for this birthday but had a cake delivered to his home.
This year, his birthday was on a weekday. I planned for us and our two close friends to take a yacht ride during sunset, I prepared snacks, food, drinks... and then booked us and our friends a dinner at a one of the best hotel restaurants in town. I also got him a nice shirt. I spent about 250$ on the whole thing. I also wrote him a birthday letter.
On the Satuday preceding his birthday, we went out for dinner with my cousins and sister and her husband. He was so quiet all throughout, barely talked, kept complaining about things, and when gift giving topic was being discussed, he passive agressively said directed at me "yeah sometimes you shouldn't value someone so much" when the people around us were discussing what gifts their boyfriends/husband would get them and I said "yeah mine is generous with his gifts". It was a simple discussion and he took it to heart.
For instance, my cousin's fiance said she only got one rose on valentines. Now, my fiance got me a whole bouquet, but my cousin literally PAMPERS his fiance day and night, pays for her everything. So it's not just that one rose. And my fiance held this against me afterwars, he's like 'did you hear? others only give their fiances one rose"
It turned out he thought I had disregarded his birthday and didn't plan anything for his birthday. But truthfully, I had planned things out for the DAY OF HIS BIRTH, and not the weekend preceding it, because I already spent too much and couldn't afford a getaway or something also. I
Anyways, he had work on his birthday and I wasn't telling him about the yacht trip just yet. It was a surprise.
He picked me up after work and we went to his place, where I gave him the shirt. He didn't even appreciate it, just wore it and said it's too big. And he was angry for some reason, even using a loud tone with his mother.
The second we reached the yacht, he was still so serious, silent, didn't appreciate it at all. Even when our friends arrived he just was there. Like an angry child. While the rest of us were just chilling and enjoying the new experience which. 30 minutes into the ride he turns to me and says; "and then what? we just do this for a whole other hour?"
at that point, I was so pissed I was about to cry. I didn't respond and went to another spot on the boat. He was like this the entire time, only talking occasionally, barely excited. We got a bit nauseous and took motion sickness pills which made us drowsy. But we had a fancy dinner planned afterwards, and my sister and her husband also joined.
Despite everyone there spending so much money and time out of their days just to celebrate his birthday with him, he was so silent the entire time, even at the restaurant, barely showing respect or gratitude to anyone. Blamed his silence on the effects of the pill. I took it too, and I was drowsy too, but I wasn't making it as obvious at hijm and I was putting an effort into showing appreciation to the people around us on behalf of his rudeness.
At the end of the night, we got him a tiny birthday cake slice from the restaurant's menu.
After the whole thing ended, he's like "I'm a getaway and restaurant type of guy" and he made me feel bad for the yacht trip and what not.
A week later, he jokingly said "you didn't even get me a birthday cake" - but I know there was some truth to what he said.
This is why his birthdays always stress me out cause nothing I do is ever enough. It's my fault for trying to gift him unique things on his birthday, but never again.
Still, I want to know if his attitude is normal? Or if there are hidden motives in there.
On my birthday, we usually do have a getaway in the weekend before if it's on a weekday. But we always have getaways, and he earns more than me. Plus, in our culture, its usually the man pampering the woman, but he expects me to go full out on him on his birthday?
This past year for instance, I was studying aborad so we didn't spend neither christmas nor new years nor my birthday togeher. When I returned, he gave me a perfume and a gold necklace. But we didn't exactly go out or celebrate.
I'm not sure what to do or how to react to this occurrence, especialyl since he's my fiance and we have a life ahead us.

-Ill try to keep it short and to the point Met infp girl online randomly, was good then she got bored cause i pushed to meet even tjo i rejected 2 coffee invitations and wanted instead to take a walk in the park at night to talk freely, my intentions i think came across as ambiguous, i would like to meet and talk to her or even chat at this point, but there was a guy in her life -Shes been in a bad place i believe, told me straight up shes not in the mood for human connections these days, i believe she thinks i get mad at her taking a while to respond and it doesnt sit well with her -explained i did not want a date and was just me showing interest in the human being that she is and since then ive been left on read(couple weeks), shes put a very sad profile pic and status that same day a bit later on , and i believe she broke up with the guy because of that
I will probably try to communicate one last time but im not exactly sure what to say, i have been very serious compared to my usual jokester self and just avoided discussions instead hoping wed have them in person. She doesnt quite know me and is not mentally ok so i get it, but it kinda feels shitry and like i lost a possible friend. What do you think i should do? Im ENFJ by the way.

So I 21m was hanging out with my friends the other night. We were pretty high (smoke because it helps my anxiety before anyone wants to judge) and we were in a park. I was basically locked to the bench and a few of friends/mutual friends were leaving. I asked my friend 18f if she would run to the shop and grab me cigarettes and I’ll give her the money but she was getting picked up so didn’t have time.
There was another girl 19f there who I was seeing before, she made it seem like something serious was gonna happen and I caught feels but then she changed her mind and basically ghosted me as much as she could while still being in my wider friend group, ie stopped replying to messages, avoiding me in person. we’re cool now but not friends. She overheard me asking and left and then like 5 minutes later just came back with the cigarettes, I said thank you and she shouldn’t have, that I’ll give the money the next day and she left.
I messaged her the next day asking to send me her details so I could send the money and she starts claiming it’s fine I don’t have to etc. I insisted but she wasn’t having it. Firstly I hate people paying for me, I guess just something I got from my dad and 2 I didn’t really feel comfortable with her buying me stuff with everything between us.
I saw her a few days later and had what I owed her in cash and tried to give it to her and she still claimed no so I was just like take it man and she was like why do you care and I basically said without thinking I’m not comfortable with you buying me things because while it ain’t a crazy price they ain’t exactly cheap at like 20. She seemed a bit upset and I felt bad but she just took the money and was like thanks.
Then I had a mutual come ask me why I was being a dick because she was just trying to do something nice, but like I said I don’t feel comfortable with her buying shit for me with the way she acts around me, like I get why she does but doesn’t change it for me.
Figured I’d come here to see what you guys think.

Trigger warning - Self Termination Mentioned
So as the title suggests my wife has told me she’s falling out of love with me. We have been married for 10 years, have 2 kids together, both work and until recently have been in a high demand religion. She has a history of having emotional affairs (I call them that she doesn’t) with other men and earlier in the week I discovered texts she deleted. Nothing too bad but still hurting with the fact she’s hiding them and not being truthful.
My work schedule is working 2 jobs in the same industry with 2 sleep over shifts in the mix each week. When I am on a night shift I make sure the kids lunches are packed, clothes ready and if I have time (I usually make time) I make sure the house is tidy. I work this much because we have 2 mortgages currently and are attempting to sell one of our properties to cancel both loans out. But with how the current state of rates are in my country I have to work to provide.
When she asks me to do something I do it. I always attempt to put her and the kids first. I’m ok with her going on trips with the kids or with friends. She’s a teacher so gets a lot of time off. I won’t lie, I get resentful of the time she gets to do her own thing.
As a matter of reference a normal day for us is she gets up at 4:30, exercises until 7 (this includes a bike ride, running and gym routine) she gets herself ready and she’s out the door at 7:30/8 - I get the kids to school then go to work. She will get home from around 4:30 - do another exercise session or sport train. If I’m on a night shift she will most of the time take the kids to her mums for a sleep over so she can do her routine without worrying about the kids. My days are usually get up with the kids, het them ready and off to school - work till 3:30, back home and do house work and what not till kids are in bed. Once a week I make sure I am in bed with my wife when she goes to bed - this is hard because she’s in bed at 8:30/9 and I’m not normally ready for sleep until 11 so I stay in bed because that is a request she has asked for - if not I’m in my workshop working on my hobby - only after people are in bed and I’m not needed.
Now to the incident that I’m trying to navigate. 3 nights ago I found some texts she had hid and this set me into a negative spiral. I told her I was having gut feelings something was up and that I wasn’t happy. Went for a walk together and had a conversation about what was going on (I did not share that I knew there was messages) - she denied anything going on. But she ended up telling me in a round about way is this - she is depressed, suicidal and is falling out of love with me. She floated the idea of couples counselling but it was me who said if it’s her mental health that’s causing this she needs to seek help for herself first.
Over the next couple days mixed messages have been coming my way, one message I get is “I’m sorry for hurting you, I could never hate you” to “I don’t want a bunch of questions”
She’s gone away this weekend with a female friend and hers and our kids. Leaving me to stay and work and come home to an empty house. Not knowing where I stand and feeling lost. I’ve had a massive mixture of feelings, from anxiety to depression to attempting to be headstrong and practical in my thoughts.
I know it’s a lot spewed onto the screen here - I guess I needed a vent and possibly some ideas from you guys on what I have missed? Where am I wrong? What can I do to fix my part in this?
TLDR - Marriage of 10 years is on life support due to wife falling out of love with me and there being some questionable behaviours.

Can anyone please talk me down?
Writing this all down is so painful. I feel so numb and I am at a loss of what to do. I met a guy 5 years ago this coming September. I love him, he likes me. He has been upfront about this. We have regularly had sex through out our entire “relationship” if you want to call it that. Idk. Last night, he came over and told me he started to see someone else. He felt a strong connection and that he felt it best that we stop being friends, because we couldn’t just “be friends” after what we have done over the past 5 years. I am absolutely heartbroken and I feel horrible. I love him with all my heart and I would do anything to be with him. Not only am I losing the guy I love, but also my best friend in the process. I feel so alone and I’m scared to turn to drinking. I haven’t told anyone this except here, I can’t bare the pain of having to tell my other friends who have told me for years to leave this guy. They’ve all been upfront about how they hate him and that he uses me for sex. I’m really unsure of what to do. I just want to not feel this pain. I don’t know how to go on.

So, the title is basically it. I (25F) do NOT know who my biological dad is.
My mom had me in 1998 and we lived with my grandparents. She met my stepdad and they got married in 2003, then we moved about three hours away. I always knew that something was up, but never knew what and was always worried about questioning her about it.
My mom never planned on telling me until I asked her, which I did over this past Memorial Day weekend. She told me that she had a one night stand with a guy at her friend’s cabin after the bar over the Fourth of July…
Anyways. I’ve always had a rocky relationship with my stepdad, but it’s improved so much over the last two years. I expressed to my mom that I want to know who my biological dad is. However, she’s concerned that it’ll negatively affect the relationship I have with my stepdad.
So… I guess I have some questions:
1) should I really care how my mom and stepdad feel? 2) how do I begin this search? Ancestry? 23 and Me? 3) how else can I begin this search? 4) any other advice? I
Thank you.

jow guys need your help with my cycle tren and test at the moment 1gram test 700 tren gains are super good strength increases every workout every week getting bigger mental sides are also not too bad only night sweats are difficult since the last week my libido gone down a bit since i went from 1 gram test 350 tren ace to 700 tren ace many people say i need to improve my ratio from test tren 2-1 ratio so increase test to 1400 any advice is welcome

okay imagine .. you've been a kid with lower self esteem your entire school life, and haven't dated anyone till date since you thought you were never enough and incapable, unlovable, etc. After working on yourself and growing a bit older.. a guy from your friend circle begins liking you (you figure this out since he breaks up with his current gf, makes sure you're at his birthday party with him, joins your gym so that he can workout with you) and amidst all of this you don't know how to take things forward since you like him as well and would like to see how things would go. So, one fine day, at a party, your friend directly goes up to him and asks if he'd be interested in dating you, his instant reaction or reflex was being extremely surprised and shocked too since he doesn't expect coming this from you. He replies with a "NO" (THERE GOES AGAIN A REJECTION which just adds on your low self esteem and feeling you're never enough). But she (my friend) asks him again that if he'd interested in just making out and ofc it was "WHY NOT". (mind it, you weren't touched by any male till date) After this short conversation, you spend the party evening just knowing each other more and talking (just the two of you, distant and secluded from others at the party) and him mentioning that, he had a crush on you long back (whilst in highschool) but never approached. Him also in a way convincing you that, "it's fine with getting involved physically since we're young and should explore oneself sexually as well" (You know this wasn't right since you've always been a one-man woman, .. self-realization about this: It took you 3 years to get over your highschool crush, with whom you spent really good time too (just talking and having great conversations which you never had with anyone else, that time)) okay, so back to the party.. We again talked about a lot of things and vibed well and got to know each other more that night
Fast forward to post party happenings.. he talks about you to your other friend and mentions that he'd really want to know you more and would want to have anything you'd agree on. (mostly FWB, he was focusing much on that)
Now, there's a SITUATION. You really really like him but you don't wanna be clingy or sound like you "want" something from him since you've never really recovered from that rejection you had faced in the past. But you think if FWB is something that he wants and even you wanna give this meaningless, utterly disgusting thing a try, then why not. Even you unwillingly agree for it. (Movies based out of FWB had your hopes out, and that's the worst part)
So, for the next three months you have your moments together, you have your first kiss with him, you touch some guy for the first time, his dick is the first that you see, you are comfortable being naked around him and all of this is like a fantasy movie for you and your likings for him start blooming as love for him. You've seen his soul naked.
(well also, just to bring it up, you haven't really had sex and you're virgin ofc. You've tried twice but it didn't just happen. It just DIDN'T)
Amidst all of the intimate moments that you've spent together you also spend times outside of the couch like hanging out at nights, going for walks, talking about life, philosophy, each others goals, achivements, pasts, etc.. (you were basically the most vulnerable with him than you ever were)
There was this time when you prepare a whole ass meal since you love cooking and you call him over at your place to give him a taste. So, post making out ~ you have lunch together made by you.. (HE LOVES THE DAAL YOU MADE)
Well you're also introduced to his mom and he mentions that you prepare the best daal ever to his mom (I was melted here)
Now you don't wanna ever leave him. You wanna face your life with him. You've already imagined his mom as a mother in law..
But, one day he comes up to you and says.. he likes another girl and he wouldn't continue with the FWB.
WAIT, JUST A MIN.. WHAT JUST HAPPENED. YOU FORGET THIS WAS A FWB. It never occurred to you that you're supposed to leave each other.
Now, since the past 8 months, I've been sobbing continually. Trying to be normal, staying and thinking rational, trying to study and score decent in my undergraduate course. It seems like he's really happy with her.
I had a horrible breakdown after I secretively stalked his private profile from my friend's device.
I'm done, I can't --
I thought my first would be my last but, nvm

jow guys need your help with my cycle tren and test at the moment 1gram test 700 tren gains are super good strength increases every workout every week getting bigger mental sides are also not too bad only night sweats are difficult since the last week my libido gone down a bit since i went from 1 gram test 350 tren ace to 700 tren ace many people say i need to improve my ratio from test tren 2-1 ratio so increase test to 1400 any advice is welcome

Hello everyone,
I'm new here, and this is actually my first time creating a topic on Reddit. This morning, once again, I masturbated to a pornographic video, and I felt ashamed. I've tried several times in the past to overcome this addiction. I've even attempted "No Nut November" and similar processes, with my longest streak being 20 days.
Today, I've made the decision to free myself from these chains. I've decided that today is THE DAY, the only day. With all my accumulated experience, spirituality, and knowledge, I am definitively stopping masturbation and forever banning pornography from my life. I no longer want anything to do with them.
I have seen the light, and I desire to become a responsible, gentle, caring, radiant, and strong adult. I want to elevate myself and no longer be in sin.
I started masturbating at the age of 16 due to social pressure. I was that weird guy who didn't masturbate, didn't drink alcohol, didn't smoke, didn't go out at night—the "weird," "fragile" guy. I wanted to try pornography because I was ashamed of not understanding conversations at school. A friend made a joke using the word "boobs" during a class, and I asked him, "Sorry? What are 'boobs'? I didn't understand your joke," and I felt extremely embarrassed in that moment.
Today, I am 26 years old, and I've been masturbating and watching porn for 10 years. That's a lot of time, and I believe it's high time to stop, don't you think?
May God preserve me and preserve all of you as well. Amen.

jow guys need your help with my cycle tren and test at the moment 1gram test 700 tren gains are super good strength increases every workout every week getting bigger mental sides are also not too bad only night sweats are difficult since the last week my libido gone down a bit since i went from 1 gram test 350 tren ace to 700 tren ace many people say i need to improve my ratio from test tren 2-1 ratio so increase test to 1400 any advice is welcome

My daughter has been in the hospital for months and she has at least a month, if not two, to go. I've been parenting my grand with mixed success. (You guys rocked the drivers license advice!)
I picked my grand up from work because she gets off at night and I would rather pick her up than have her drive herself. (I'm okay with being a Boomer on that one.). Tonight when I picked her up, some guy was outside talking to her. He wasn't homeless, I don't think, but he had a series of backpacks (as in more than one) and he was definitely encroaching on her personal space.
He moved away when I pulled up and when my grand got into the car, I asked her why didn't she move away from the guy. She said, and my brain exploded, that she didn't want to be mean. Well, the dissertation that I spewed after that was lengthy and loud. ( I apologized about he vocals.)
I told her she could have moved 20+ steps over where there were people, or walked back inside, or heck, anything other than to stand there. She said I was overreacting and that I always see danger. I told her that SHE needed to see the danger and eff hurting some guys feelings that she will never see again!! Then she said, this Zoomer that I would lay my life down for, what if things escalates if I moved?? And that's why I am here.
That was the most insane utterance I've heard in awhile and I told her she was wrong. She shut down on me. I need to have a better conversation since she's headed for college and I CANNOT let her keep thinking that it's okay for her to be uncomfortable in situations like this, and not the guy.
I can't bother her mom with this and I do always see danger where there may or may not be some. I think it comes with the hot flashes. Can you help me talk to her? I googled but I must have the wrong wording because I wasn't getting helpful articles.
Her mom is a Millennial and if she could, what would she say to hér kiddo?

I met him on vacation, and we hung out for two days. I'm a very socially anxious person, but with him, I felt like I've known him for years. One night, he told other teenagers that he liked me. They all told me, and they were hyping me up saying stuff like "oh look your boyfriend's here". I was so excited. I never had a guy like me before. Ever. All my life, I was treated as a freak, so I was just glad for this opportunity for something special. So I went up to him and asked him if he liked me. He told me he had a girlfriend, and got really mad at our friends for telling me.
He cut off all contact with me after. I blocked him on Instagram after he rejected my Instagram request. I was so sad that the guy I liked decided it would be best if he never saw me again. The one person who saw me for all the good I have to offer, and he still gave it up. They broke up two months later, and he still looks at my social media. We're not in contact, but according to my friend, a playlist on his Spotify was made as a birthday present to me. But I don't forgive him. I've never had the privilege of falling in love before, and he just took it away from me. I'm not mad at him for having a girlfriend. I'm just mad at him for saying he was into me when he knew full well that he couldn't be with me, even if he wanted to.