Cheap houses for rent in pahrump

I am currently trying to figure out how to trigger this quest but am stumped. I HAD to restart my game about a week ago and because of this I still do not have Eric and Stitch in my valley, and have unlocked the Lion King and Toy Story realms but haven’t moved the characters in due to grinding through other villagers questlines. But I do have everyone else including Fairy Godmother. I have her to max friendship lvl and have completed ALL of her quests. I went to the dreamscape and collected all the memories and such.
However I still cant not seem to trigger the Forgotten Relics quest, which I believe is what triggers the next part of the story.
Mickey and Scar’s houses have purple cracks in them, I am assuming they are from The Forgotten, and I’m not sure how to get rid of them.
When I search up on Google how to trigger the quest it just says “once you’ve wrapped up enough questlines Merlin will have a quest for you.”
Does anyone know what questlines I should try to target first in hopes of triggering The Forgotten Relics quest? I only have one more quest for Scar and have finished a lot of villagers questlines, but not everyone’s.

• Buy a Doubled edged safety razor

Yes, they are kinda expensive upfront, BUT they are wayyyyyy cheaper than cartridges long term. You will save over 200 dollars over the span of 2 years!!!!!! Just be warned, despite the name “safety razors” are harder and require more skill to use, and you WILL cut yourself a few times during the first few shaves. But as you get better the cuts will stop coming, Until eventually you get zero cuts and wayyyyy happier and healthier skin, aswell as a happier wallet :) (Buy a shaving CREAM too NOT shaving FOAM, the cream is thicker and will protect your face

• Go thrifting

This one is soooooo fun but I know some of you will have an issue buying feminine clothes in public so I have a fix for that, pretend your on your phone and talking to your little sister about what type of clothes she wants you to buy for her at the shop. And then buy the corresponding clothes.

• Sell some of you older masculine clothes that you don’t like anymore on Etsy, eBay, vinted, SPOK etc

Also quite a fun one :)

• Use a cheap effective skin cleanser

If you’re in the UK like me you’ll like this one, Superdrug has its own facial cleanser, it’s called the superdrug +Me cleanser, it comes in a 200ml bottle which lasts sooooooo long, I’ve had mine since December and it’s not even half empty yet (I use it daily)
I hope these will help you cuties save money! I’ll post more tips when I’ve thought of some :D

First a disclaimer I'm from Denmark so bear with me for not writing fluently English sometimes.
So here I am, telling my personal story about and event occuring years ago and still haunts me a couple of times. When I was 13 me and my family moved to a big farm as a last resort to prevent homelessness, yes this sounds as a cliche but I wish it was. The landowner had a bigger farm with production a bit further down the road and his caretaker lived next to us, he was a old happy man with a lot if sparkle and joy in his life but lived a bit messy and humble. When I was 15 i went away to a school for sports talents for a year on the soccer line i was supposed to be there for two years but in the summer holiday i met my girlfriend who now is my wife. She moved in whit me after 3 months with her and my parents consent. A while later the caretaker unfortunately died, i never found out how but that not important. Not long after we began to hear footsteps in out yard that was filled with small rocks instead of dirt or concrete every night different times and various lengths. Then it became footsteps and whistles, both from the yard but also from inside the house. The real haunting began where this entity became physical and turned on lights and other electronics. One evening i was home alone in my room playing games, from my room i could see the hallway and had the bathroom to the right from my room, i sat there and the light turned on in the bathroom, so i calmly asked if it was my GF that may have come back for a quick toilet use, but no answer i paused the game and went out to see, no one was in there but I felt a quick freeze and was unable to move for a couple of seconds. I heard a deep angry voice say "hello" and a sensation of someones hand on the back of my neck, like someone found me trespassing the property. I ran as fast i could down the stairs and out in the garage that faced towards my rooms windows, i stood there looking up on my windows a multiple times saw quick movements of a shadow and one time a full body apparition looking down on me, and then the shadows stopped. I spent 2 hours in the garage in the middle of nothing freezing waiting for my GF anf parents to come home. Move a couple of months forward and my GF is pregnant, we moved rooms to get s bigger one for us and our daughter. One night we were sleeping and I felt uncomfortable the entire evening but pushed it aside as tiredness or a mild flu. Well we laid in our bed and when both us where sleeping i woke up on top of my GF with her neck in my hands and her screaming, i remembered nothing, my name is Patrick but i woke up as a Peter. I had distinct memories of a man's life that was not mine. A hateful man. I remember nothing only that he was awful. Still to this date 12 years later some memories pops up and i see this man in the shadows and feel his appearance near me. Sorry is this is a long weird story that doesn't make sense. Please feel free to ask questions about anything thats not making sense.

Buckle up because this is going to be a long one… so my sister had a child in 2012, who we will call “A”. A was placed by CPS with my mother shortly after her second birthday due to my sister’s drug use.
Between then and 2019 my sister was able to get back sober and on track and ended up having another child February of 2019. She was doing well for herself and her new baby so my mom decided to let her have A back. They didn’t go to court or change court orders, just a verbal agreement, my mother still has custody to this day. My sister was also given custody of her ex husband’s toddler during all of this too, making her responsible for 3 kids total.
Things went okay for a few months but fast forward to now and my sister and her new husband are back on drugs and the kids are being neglected. My mom still has custody of A, so for awhile she did take her back. But A didn’t like that she now had rules regarding friends and social media. If she was told no by my mother she would just text/call and ask her mom to come get her so she could “stay the night” and then she would be able to get whatever she wanted at her mom’s house. This has caused problems between my mom and sister and now A prefers to be at her moms due to the lack of parental control over there and is extremely disrespectful to my mother. My mother, for a bunch of reasons, does not want to stir the pot and believes A will either want to come back soon on her own, or my sister will get herself herself in trouble and the problem will work itself out.
My problem with all of this is that A has confided in me that for most of the school year, she was responsible for waking herself up and getting ready for school, just to not be able to get her mom up out of bed and was either hours late or absent every single day. How this wasn’t a red flag, I do not know. She has also told me that her mom and step dad spend most of the day either locked in the garage or bedroom and she is responsible for taking care of her younger siblings when she isn’t at school. She has witnessed her mother and stepfather do drugs in just about every way possible. She’s explained seeing them snort, eat, smoke, and inject substances. Also, the younger kids and the dog are constantly getting out and wandering the neighborhood that is off of a very busy main road and a river. With the lack of supervision my 4 year old nephew has absolutely destroyed an entire sectional couch AND a mattress with a pocket knife give to him by his father. Countless instances of domestic violence while the kids are present. Among many other things.
You would think it would be a no brainer. Just call, right? Well, I’m not sure.
I have 4 kids myself, and don’t have the room in my home or my vehicle to add 3 more children if they’re to be removed as a result of me calling. There isn’t any immediate family that would be able to take in all 3 children together. Would they separate siblings? Would they be better off where they are now than in foster care? My sister would definitely be revengeful, and my husband and I smoke legal marijuana recreationally (Colorado), would we be making ourselves vulnerable to a CPS case against ourselves?
I feel like I have to do something before something terrible happens. I will never forgive myself for not stepping in when I had the chance. But what do I do?

Hi! I'm planning to rent out our condo unit. I just have some questions in my mind.

1. Aside from the deposit and advanced payment na kailangan bayaran ng tenant before moving in, magbabayad na rin ba agad ng rent for the first month?
2. What should I look out for when filtering possible tenants?
3. Do I need to provide the tenant a copy of the Title and my ID?

Any advice would be great. Thank you!

Rough Outline
T.J Detweiler, Jose Caroilica, Panchito Pistoles, Vince LaSalle, Gretel Grant-Gomez, Molly McGee, Oliver "Ollie" Chen, Scratch, Andria Davenport and Libby Stine-Torrez are all same floor neighbors at the Boonchuy-Plantar Hotel's 25th floor, Andria’s parents handles the hotel’s finances of the Boonchuy-Plantar Hotel Libby’s mother reads poetry at the lobby while T.J’s mother is assistant curator of the natural history and Vince’s father handles reception while his mother is a bellhop the show would also follow Boonchuy-Plantar Hotel heiresses Anne, Sprig, Polly and Frobo, candy counter girl Willow Park and her assistant Candace Flynn, hotel manager Peter Prickly. Hotel assistant manager Major Francis Monogram, and the staff includes Murial Finster, Martin Chatterley, Dr. Jan, Dr. Frakes, Terri, Camellia Noceda, and Carl Karl the founders of the Boonchuy-Plantar Hotel Hop Pop, Mr. Boonchuy, and Mrs. Boonchuy. Mr. X and Agent Jenner would also be major shareholders in the Boonchuy-Plantar Hotel.
Main cast

1. T.J Detweiler
2. Jose Caroilica
3. Panchito Pistoles
4. Vince LaSalle
5. Gretel Grant-Gomez
6. Molly McGee
7. Oliver "Ollie" Chen
8. Scratch
9. Andria Davenport
10. Libby Stine-Torrez
11. Anne Boonchuy
12. Sprig Plantar
13. Polly Plantar
14. Frobo
15. Willow Park
16. Candace Flynn
17. Peter Prickly
18. Major Francis Monogram

Recurring cast

1. Martin Chatterley
2. Murial Finster
3. Dr. Jan
4. Dr. Frakes
5. Terri
6. Camellia Noceda
7. Carl Karl
8. Hop Pop
9. Mr. Boonchuy
10. Mrs. Boonchuy
11. Mr. X
12. Agent Jenner
13. Darius Deamonne
14. Raine Whispers
15. Terra Snapdragon
16. Adrian Graye Vernworth
17. Mason
18. Vitimir
19. Hettie Cutburn
20. Osran
21. Luz Noceda
22. Eda Clawthorne
23. King
24. Hooty
25. Edric Blight
26. Emira Blight
27. Boscha
28. Willow Park
29. Gus Porter
30. Amity Blight
31. Owlbert
32. Lilith Clawthorne
33. Hunter
34. Flapjack
35. Candle Fox
36. Kif Chatterley

Episode count
Episode 1 Hotel Friends: T.J and Vince struggles to find some friends at the Boonchuy-Plantar Hotel, however when they cross paths with the likes of Gretel Grant-Gomez Molly McGee, Andria Davenport and Libby Stine-Torrez the six realize they have more in common than they think and T.J shares some of his best moments at school including pulling practical jokes. Meanwhile Anne and Sprig introduce the Coven Heads at the hotel. Hearing the news, T.J and his pals devise a plan to pull a practical joke on them.
Episode 2 Secret’s Out: T.J Detweiler and his friends tries to keep the fact that he and his friends lives at the most luxurious hotel in Los Angeles a secret but that’s out the window when the school bus picks them up at the front of the hotel now that everyone knows where they live, T.J Detweiler is torn between wherever to invite fellow peers or not invite them at all.
Episode 3 Photo Perfect: When T.J Detweiler and Jose Caroilica read up on a news article about a famous gay couple (Gladstone Gander and Roy Fox) getting married at the hotel, the picture of the couple’s first kiss is estimated to be worth $600,000. With a 4K UHD camera T.J and his parrot pal Jose gets the winning picture shot with some assistance from Anne Boonchuy.
Episode 4 Sick on the 25th Floor: T.J Detweiler is stricken with a severe case of chickenpox and has to stay home for three weeks. With Darryel and Scratch of all people watching over his recovery. Meanwhile Anne and her friends partake in the girl’s soccer team and wins the national championship
Episode 5 Baseball Drop: Peter Prickly takes T.J, Jose, Wander and Sylvia to a Dodgers game and when Wander catches the baseball that wins the Dodges the game, Wander becomes the most beloved person in L.A. Meanwhile Candance Flynn and Anne Boonchuy are selected to co-host this year’s Oscars awards but Candance is nervous about this having stage fright so Anne assists Candance get over her stage fright.
Episode 6 Rumor Mill: When Anne starts a rumor about Candance and Jeremy getting back together and they go on break, in response, Candance spreads rumors that Anne and her parents support hardline Republicans who support machine gun legalization (repealing the NFA), enacting a federal 6-week abortion ban, hiring 870,000 ICE agents to deport entire families and massively expanding the fossil fuel industry. Then Anne spreads rumors that Candace and her parents support hardline progressive Democrats who want to make public utilities publicly owned and it’s employees government workers (making them eligible for union benefits), make the rich pay 94% in income taxes, a 65% wealth tax and make campaigning and elections publicly funded. Meanwhile T.J and Libby are selected to represent Third Street School at the Week in Washington program.
Episode 7 Heck’s Kitchen: When Fox News’ Greg Gutfield and Tyrus arrive for a stay at the Boonchuy Plantar Hotel, it’s all hands on deck, things take a turn for the worse when Emeril Lagasse (voiced by himself) is out sick. Vince LaSalle with his cooking and his parent's party affiliation impresses the host so much he offers guest spots to him and his family on his show. However this concerns Anne as Greg Gutfield and Tyrus are both Republicans and that Anne and her parents align themselves with Democrats.
Episode 8 Bowling Team: It’s revealed that Vice LaSalle possesses a gift for bowling and enrolls in the school's bowling team.
Episode 9 Detweler x Davenport: After T.J spends some time with Andra Davenport, he introduces some of his favorite hobbies and she introduces him to her hobbies.
Episode 10 Frightmares at Room 208: Lawson dares T.J to spend a week at Room 208 inhabited by Frghtmears and in order to make it through the week he convinces Ollie to join in.
Episode 11 Christmas at the Boonchuy-Plantar Hotel: When a major snowstorm snows in everyone at the Boonchuy-Plantar and with that comes delays in presents, T.J reminds everyone that Chrsistmas is about spending time with your loved ones and is the greatest Christmas gift of all.
Episode 12 Thanksgiving at the Boonchuy-Plantar Hotel: It's Thanksgiving and everyone is looking foward at the
Crossover with the following shows

1. Recess (https://disney.fandom.com/wiki/Recess)
2. Amphibia (https://disney.fandom.com/wiki/Amphibia)
3. The Owl House (https://disney.fandom.com/wiki/The_Owl_House)
4. Hamster and Gretel (https://disney.fandom.com/wiki/Hamster_%26_Gretel)
5. Phineas and Ferb (https://disney.fandom.com/wiki/Phineas_and_Ferb)
6. Milo Murphy’s Law (https://disney.fandom.com/wiki/Milo_Murphy%27s_Law)
7. The Ghost and Molly McGee (https://disney.fandom.com/wiki/The_Ghost_and_Molly_McGee)
8. Kiff (https://disney.fandom.com/wiki/Kiff)
9. Star Vs The Forces of Evil (https://disney.fandom.com/wiki/Star_vs._the_Forces_of_Evil)
10. Big City Greens (https://disney.fandom.com/wiki/Big_City_Greens)
11. The 7D (https://disney.fandom.com/wiki/The_7D)
12. Gravity Falls (https://disney.fandom.com/wiki/Gravity_Falls)
13. DuckTales (2017) (https://disney.fandom.com/wiki/DuckTales_(2017_series)))
14. The 7D (https://disney.fandom.com/wiki/The_7D)
15. Wander Over Yonder (https://disney.fandom.com/wiki/Wander_Over_Yonder)
16. Kick Buttowski: Suburban Daredevil (https://disney.fandom.com/wiki/Kick_Buttowski:_Suburban_Daredevil)

Quotes

[After T.J Detweiler had pranked Darius Deamonne with electromagnets Anne Boonchuy slams T.J Detweiler against the wall and pins him and several jelly bean jars are dropped to the floor Willow Park just watches from the counter]
Anne Boonchuy: Are you froging kidding me?! Pulling a prank like that in my lobby? On a Coven Head of all the guests you had to choose?!
T.J Detweiler: Come on Anne? It was a good prank.
Anne Boonchuy: Really especially when it makes me and my parents’ hotel look bad! Man if your parents heard about this they would be just as mad as I am.
Ellie Detweiler (walks in): Not by a long shot, all T.J was doing is being a boy, I mean, ever heard the phrase, “boys will be boys”.
Anne Boonchuy: Really what about “what’s good for businesses”.
Ellie Detweiler: Come on Anne, so T.J made a mistake, I mean a talking to would have suffice but going Tony Soprano on him is a little excessive. just let it slide.
T.J Detweiler: Please. I mean I just made some friends here.
Anne Boonchuy: Alright fine I’ll let it slide.
[T.J Detweiler eyes at the candy]
Anne Boonchuy: Forget the froging jelly beans, go!
[T.J Detweiler walks off and Anne Boonchuy picks up all the jelly bean jars that fell on the floor and hands WIllow Park a cash stack
Anne Boonchuy: Keep the change and you saw and heard nothing.
Willow Park: Lips are sealed.

Pros: Would evoke the nostalgia of The Suite Life of Zack and Cody fans
Cons: Everything in “The Suite Life of T.J.” would be non-canon for the following shows; Amphibia, The Owl House, Hamster and Gretel, Phineas and Ferb, Milo Murphy’s Law The Ghost and Molly McGee, The 7D, Wander Over Yonder, Kick Buttowski: Suburban Daredevil, Kiff, Star Vs The Forces of Evil, Big City Greens, The 7D, Gravity Falls, DuckTales (2017), The 7D, Wander Over Yonder and Kick Buttowski: Suburban Daredevil pretty much like Chibiverse, also there would have to be one art style for all characters.

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I make tinctures. Lemon balm, wild lettuce, blue vervain and a few others. I've been following this sub for a while. I wanted to try mulungu but the prices kept holding me back.
Well I bit the bullet and went all in. I got 2 kgs (4.4 pounds) shipped from our friend in Brazil. I think once everything is strained, I'll have around 30 ounces of the tincture to share.
The mulungu was actually pretty cheap but the shipping is what kills. I wanted to try it first but I don't trust amazon and small amounts everywhere else were just too expensive.
I'm not looking to make anything off this. It's a trial run but I also don't need 30 oz. (The yield will be higher but I want to evaporate some down to see how it works.)
The tinctures will be ready at the end of the month. The ratios are - .5 kg mulungu root to 1 liter Everclear (190 proof) + 1 liter vodka (80 proof) and lemon juice. So roughly a 1:4 tincture in 135 proof alcohol.
Shakin' multiple times throughout the day, as described on the vendor website. Pretty excited. Fabio sent a sample of the extract in the box and I've been enjoying that. Long term, I hope to find the right ratio for the tinctures to be a bit stronger but this was what worked out for the setup I had.
Anyway, if anyone's interested in let me know and I'll hook you up. Shipping out of the midwest so should be reasonable. Also, since it's basically at cost, giving preference to anyone who wants a larger amount.
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I'll be reviewing at the University Hotel from July to September for the Veterinarian Licensure Exam. I live hours away from QC and don't know anyone in the area who could help me find a dorm or boarding house.
Google Maps doesn't have contact numbers or websites for nearby dorms and BHs. Facebook posts are targeted more towards UPD's students in general, but I just really need something closer to the area.
I figured asking someone to look around the area will be cheaper than me going there by myself. If you live around the area and have a few hours to spare, please dm me for details. Thanks.

Now don’t get me wrong, my husband is very responsible. It’s just occasionally when he drinks, he get this bright idea to drive. He will fight me so hard on it. Telling me he lived 32yrs without me just fine and have 7 more year on me. He has experienced more in life than I have as if it makes him a bette driver?! Especially when drunk? Like really?!
I am currently 6wks pregnant. We went out tonight to a comedy show 45min from our house. We were having a good night until all the guys ordered a bucket of beers each, on top on the 2 old fashions and single beer they already had… the show was only a couple of hours long. So 9 drinks in about 2 hours… no water. We did have a big dinner before but damn. My husband is a big guy, 6’2 256lb. To me it just seemed like too much to drive. He wasn’t slurring his works or walking weird at all but I knew it would be a matter of time. We walked to the car and I asked him if he was ok, he said yes. We got in the car and he took me to a hotel so I could pee since well I’m pregnant and pee every 5 sec. The hotel was around the corner and as we get closer he almost hit the curb… I had to yell out and he of course denied it and said he wasn’t going to hit it. Ugh. After the hotel I get back in the car but not before trying to drive. He just would not let me… we have a Tesla so it’s not like I could take the keys… the key is his phone… he insisted he was ok and I needed to trust him. I explained it isn’t worth it and to let me drive. We have too much to lose if something was to happen. We get all the way to the free way entrance and he pulls over and gets out. He said he will find his own way home since I can’t trust him. Funny how he was willing to catch an Uber home instead of just letting me drive. So annoying! Anyways I of course didn’t leave him… I took the next exit, had to go searching for him and told him to get in the car. He has not talked to me since. The hormonal bitch it me wanted to leave him but I couldn’t…He is currently sleeping in his office. I’m sure still mad at me for caring and trying to keep us safe. He has only done this 1 other time… I just don’t get it….

Please allow me to set the scene for you: Sold out Friday(6/9) night, 2:30am-ish , college town, travel baseball season, one room left for arrivals.
Que Mr. High Level Member (HLM): Hello, I have a reservation.
Me: Great! Welcome in, can I have the last name on the reservation please?
HLM: Yes its insert name
Me:Hmm, I'm not seeing that name in my arrivals, in house, or in canceled rooms. Could it be under a different name?
HLM: No, here's my confirmation number 0000000
Me: I'm so sorry sir but your reservation is for the 10th and I am sold out, I won't be able to check you in until 3pm tomorrow.
HLM: But it is the 10th!
Me: Technically yes, but as I have not run audit yet and switched the day over, it is still the 9th in regards to reservations.
HLM: Well it wouldn't let me book for the 9th on my app!
Me: Because we are sold out... and it was after midnight when you booked.
HLM: que grown ass man hissy fit So you just fucked me then huh?! I drove all the way across town! Can you even tell me where I can find a room????
Me: No sir, I'm sorry but I cannot see any other hotels availability (like they all seem to believe we can???? Maybe take that extra step and call and speak to someone..)

My rig: tomahawk b550, gkill neon 3600(xmp2),Rtx4080, 3800x3d(pbo-30), seasonic 750w, all watercooled
My problem: It's like this every day I use it. So, I start up my pc and start a game and after a few minutes I get an blackscreen with the pc running but not responding(sometimes sound stays on). This happens like 2-3 times in a row and after that it runs totally fine without problem. Sometimes this happens also while only browsing. Windows event viewer timline states only the I turned off my pc not correctly, before that there's no warning or any other stuff.
What Software runs in background:afterburner, Riva, aida64, aquasuite,
What I tried: Fresh Windows install, remount gpu, memtest,
I also ran prime95 and furmark for about an hour and no black screen...
Does anybody has an idea what can cause this?
Edit: I run a cheap tiny lsd display for aida sensor panel and I already disconnected it but nothing changed.

I haven't talked to my family in years, for reasons I'm not going to get too much into now. But recently my mom has been trying to get me to visit my grandmother, because she is very, very sick, possibly on her deathbed. But I refuse to go, because her family is all kinds of effed up. Last time I was there I was verbally and physically assaulted, and I refuse to put myself in that situation again. I mean this happened years ago, because I haven't had any contact with them since. Everytime my mom called she'd tell me how my grandmother was so sick, and how her health was constantly declining. How my grandmother would sometimes even forget who and where she is, because of her old age, but she remembers me fondly. Really she was trying to guilt me to visit her, but I refuse to go. Like I said, the last time I was there, she said ir did nothing on my behalf. Throughout the years she just let things happen, and I will never forgive her for it, easy as that. But mom's really relentless, and she was kinda wearing me down. She insisted that my grandmother was very sick, and therefore all her priorities have changed. Mom told me how my grandmother wanted to make up for lost time, and spend time with my daughter, who she hasn't seen in a while. All this made me almost reconsider my distance from her during the tough time my grandmother's been sick. I still refuse to go over there, but my mom concocted a plan along with my uncle to bring my grandmother to my house, so we could talk. The plan was that my uncle was to get my frail grandmother to my house late in the afternoon, so we could have closure. Mom expressed many times the great risk my grandmother was being put through to get to me. Also she was so excited that finally we were going to get along again. She asked me to get a picture of all of us together to send to her to ease her nerves about the visit. I was so nervous about the entire thing, I constantly considered telling my mom to just cancel the whole thing, because recently mom told me that my grandmother could sometimes barely walk unassisted. Not only that, I was worried because I didn't know who else from the family would tag along for the ride. Obviously my grandmother needed lots of assistance and care, someone else was bound to come with her other than my uncle. I felt that it was going to very awkward having people over whom I hadn't talked to in a while. And I was willing to go through that for my mom, because she was so excited for the whole ordeal. The day of the visit I spent the whole day cleaning the entire house until it was sparkling, and even made a very delicious and very health concious snacks and dinner for my grandmother, to share while we talked. I was so nervous I kept counting the seconds until she arrived, until finally there was a knock on the door. I straightened myself up to open the door, and sure enough it was my uncle. Immediately, I invited him in, speaking sweetly and being so very warm and open. He cut me off, "No. Actually could you follow me?" I thought, maybe he did come alone and wanted me to help him get my grandmother out of the car. Sure enough I followed him across the street where he was parked and in the passenger seat was my grandmother. She looked older, and smaller than the last time I saw her. I greeted her and welcomed her to come inside my house because I had prepared tea, snacks and dinner. She just looked at me, and with the same stern voice I've heard for years said: "I'm fine here." I should have left. My uncle procedes to tell me how my grandmother didn't want to come here in the first place, like it was some kind of joke, and my grandmother reiterated that a lot. I really should have left then. She proceeds to ask me about my life, how I've been, what I've been doing, etc. I was doing this for my mom, so I answered politely all her questions, and asked her about her. She didn't answer any of my questions but diverted them to more questions about me. Eventually at some point the conversation shifted. She went back to doing and saying the same things she said that led to my distancing myself from her. Judging how my house, my husband, my daughter, my life in general will never be good enough for her and her family. I tell her in the nicest way possible that my life is good. I explain that I have my own house, my own business, manage my own hours, my husband is loving and supportive, my daughter is the smartest person in her class, I don't drink or smoke, and I take care of my family so we're all in good health. That doesn't matter at all to her, and she tells me how I'm the black sheep of the family for going to therapy, and working on myself. Her words: "Therapy is for crazy people like rapists, psychopaths, and murderers." In her mind, why would I need therapy when nothing truly bad ever happened to me. That there are people with worse problems in the world, who have survived way more tragic things without therapy. Why didn't I walk away and went back inside my house!? Even then I stayed there like an idiot, while she judged me over and over. I just politely stood my ground about me still going to therapy and about every choice I've made in my life, but I wanted to do much more than that. I wanted to scream! I wanted to tell her off! I wanted to yell at her the fact that I only needed therapy because of her and our entire family!!! But, for the sake of my mother, I didn't say anything. And I really regretted that. I think she got her fill, and eventually they both left. I took a bit of time to myself to reflect on all these things that happened, so that I could talk clearly to her about it. When I called my mom to tell her how the whole thing went, but she dismissed it as she usually does when it comes to her family. I got upset and told her she was never to pressure me again into seeing my grandmother anywhere, and was going to never bring it up again ever. It's been months and until now she hasn't brought it up, which is good. I don't know how my grandmother is doing, and honestly I don't care. So am I the a-whole?

I’m getting moved out of the barracks soon, by the end of the month.
I joined the navy with a decent amount of debt and have been paying it off since enlisting. I’m being moved out of the barracks and although I have enough money for the security deposits+first months rent, I’m scared that when next months rent comes around my BAH may not be hitting by then and I’ll have to come up with $2,700 out of pocket. I know I’ll get backpay but until it kicks in, it’s going to be a struggle…
Any advice on what I can do?

7 years of relationship, which could go to all the relationship and deadbedroom subreddits to be categorized as. Since the early days it was 90% giving and 10 % receiving, towards the end: 48% giving, 2% receiving and 50% porn. In addition to sex, this went ways to the everyday life as well, from simple hugs and compliments, to taking care of the house chores. Even asking her out to join me for a evening walk with our dog, she would let an annoyed moan out of herself most of the time.
Worst thing about this is that we clicked so well together, and should she have improved her lazy ways of showing affection, I would have married her. Yes, for fucks sake, I did talk about my needs of mutual affection countless of times. In fact, 90% of our arguments started from that. Things got really worse when I went on a several week celibacy periods to see should she initiate anything, to no avail constantly. In time I got more cynical and lazier myself, feeling like I should just sit on my ass the whole day like she does. Worst mistake. That ended up her telling me that our everyday life is dead and she questions whether she loves me anymore.
Whether I would raise our puppy 80% by myself, or take us out to a different city for dinner, concert and drinks, she would just start to sleep with 0 contact with me and she saw nothing wrong with that. Seeing friends with their SO's where, after years, they would still show that genuine affection towards each other (calling each other sweetheart, hugs etc), I felt genuine jealousy.
Broke up with her 'cause I couldnt keep this bullshit up. Was miserable for a while, but the best way to get over someone is to get under.
And man, even one night stands have shown more affection during one night that she did over the last 2 years. Feels relieving and I feel like a different person from the cynical era of our relationship, but yet I still get these little bitter feelings for the whole situation. EDIT: To clarify, this is the first time in months that I've gotten this feeling, still wanted to properly get it out of me now.
Needed to get this off myself. Love you all. Do not let anyone take you for granted

I am 23 and I have only been out to bars with my friends once in my life. I’ve been to only 1 or 2 real house parties, and a handful of small get togethers. It’s not like I don’t have any friends, but my closest friends are either much older than me or they just don’t go out, and my friends that do go out I am not very close with and I have just never really gotten an invite. My partner has a big group of friends that love to party and go out. He goes drinking or to parties most weekends, but I’m never involved. her friends who go out a lot tell me about their crazy weekends sometimes I lie and say I went out too. Sometimes I’ll tell stories about hanging out with friends months ago and act like it was more recently because I don’t know what to talk about. Sometimes I even exaggerate things with my partner so that my weekend sounds more exciting because he always has a lot of crazy stories to tell and I am usually just home or doing things alone like the movies.
Sometimes I don’t mind just relaxing at home, but sometimes going out with friends sounds fun but I literally have to try to invite myself in order to go, and usually it just doesn’t end up working out. I made kind of rule for myself to not say no to invites, but it’s been months and I’ve only really been invited to one thing. I like to spend time alone but lately I’ve been feeling so lonely. The weather is getting warmer and everybody is out enjoying late weekend nights and I just feel like nobody is probably even thinking of me at all.